@knockout my advice is to go to lord and taylor or nordstrom and have them size you, then bring you bras that match your desires. they're usually really, really helpful and knowledgable--i think i've found 3 out of the 4 bras i own that way.
WHAT ARE YOUR HALLOWEEN PLANS? i'm going to a goth club tomorrow! I WILL BE DRESSED AS SCARY SPICE, EVERYONE.
@yeah-elle heaven knows, he's miserable nowwwww
On The Bro Pie
50% big eater
50% looks terrible in a backwards baseball cap
these make me sad that the only camp i ever went to was poor-kid day camp at the town pool. some days we sat in a trailer all day because it was too hot to go in the pool (???).
@Passion Fruit it's been a couple of months. i'm also moving for a definite but extended length of time, which i consistently forget is probably a huge factor.
the way i've been looking at it is this: as long as the relationship continues to make me happy more than 90% of the time, i'll let it be the way it is. if it really starts eating at me, i'll cut it off (i'm GREAT at that).
@RNL honestly i've thought that several times, and i've never tried to push him into anything; it's just a confusing situation because it's pretty much like we ARE dating, just without all the touching, which is what makes me think it's not an excuse. as in, if we actually had sex then he'd really be a pervert, or so he believes, so we have to keep it mostly-platonic.
@RNL he's said some things like, "not right now," etc. i have been given the idea that the age difference is the main problem--he clearly likes me enough to spend a lot of time alone with me, and we flirt a lot, but it hasn't gone further than that.