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On In Praise of Tori Amos

@BattyRabbit GASP

Posted on May 15, 2014 at 3:33 pm 0

On Coming Out at Work, An Introductory Queer Library, and Being "Queer Enough"

LW3, try to meet more nonmonogamous people in general; I think then you'll find a lot of these questions are easier answered (or don't even come up because everyone makes the right assumptions). If you live in or near a major city, there are probably some meetups you could find and attend--even if you don't click with any particular people there, you can ask them what bars/clubs/dance nights they frequent where you could also go meet cool people who are likely to understand/not question your situation.

Posted on May 15, 2014 at 3:18 pm 0

On A Japanese Astronaut Says Goodbye to His Robot Space Companion

I am dying from the cuteness.

Posted on May 14, 2014 at 12:05 pm 0

On In Praise of Tori Amos

Nailed it with how it feels to admit to liking Tori Amos. (I DO LIKE BOTH, OK?)

Posted on May 14, 2014 at 12:04 pm 1

On Interview with a Woman Who Recently Discovered She Loves Group Sex

@wryredhead Every relationship has different dynamics, and different people like different things. The fact that she straight-out says that her husband calling the shots is "part of the fantasy" means that it IS okay for them and is something they've communicated about.

Posted on April 24, 2014 at 4:47 pm 4

On Henry James, Reviewed by Henry James

I love Henry James (and often find myself defending him at length to anyone who will listen to me talk about Henry James), and I LOVE this review.

I remember not being impressed with that adaptation, though.

Posted on April 1, 2014 at 4:34 pm 0

On Someone Explain Dating to Me

@Statham Another OKC success here! I got the normal creepy/practically automated messages, but I also met some interesting people, a couple of whom I'm still friends with on facebook, and one of whom I'm married to.

Posted on March 12, 2014 at 5:06 pm 1

On Word Search

I loved this. And what an amazing opportunity to talk to all of these people!

Posted on March 6, 2014 at 4:46 pm 1

On I Will Not Soak It In

@SarahP I realized as I typed this that the technology aspect is maybe what bothers the "soak it in" people the most. Would a "soak it in" person judge me for reading through a sunset? Probably not. (Even if it's something trashy!) But looking at a phone somehow is less okay to some people.

Posted on February 27, 2014 at 4:34 pm 0

On I Will Not Soak It In

Every day on the commute home from my last job, I would get to see the sun set over the Boston skyline. And some days I really liked setting my book (didn't have a smart phone at the time) aside and looking out the window. But other days I had seen the sunset before and I just wanted to keep reading. There is nothing wrong with that. We don't need to look at everything all the time!

Posted on February 27, 2014 at 4:33 pm 0