On How to Enjoy the Airport This Holiday Travel Season

@you're a kitty! Oh gods, the noise canceling earphones! So expensive, but so very necessary. I recently got a position that requires a lot of travel; fortunately it also pays enough that I could reasonably acquire noise canceling headphones, well-designed luggage, and airpot booze. Life-savers, all.

Posted on December 20, 2013 at 9:18 pm 0

On How to Enjoy the Airport This Holiday Travel Season

I hate going through security, and I hate being on a plane (not a phobia, just a profound sense of the injustice and dehumanizing nature of modern air travel). But I too looooooooove spending time in airports, before flights and during layovers.

Because I am an adult who makes grownup money these days, I always make a beeline for the nicest-looking bar, overpriced drinks notwithstanding. There's one bar in a hub airport I often find myself in for layovers -- it is the perfect spot for people-watching, since it has seats facing a big hallway through the terminal. I love sitting with a big glass of wine and the (free!) nuts they provide, and watching everyone walk by, observing people's choices of carry-on luggage and travel fashion.

My favourite airport so far is Singpaore's Changi airport. They have koi ponds! And a butterfly garden!

Posted on December 20, 2013 at 9:16 pm 2

On What Are the Consequences of Being Turned Away?

@burner Adding my voice to the chorus -- you're not alone. Personally, I don't feel bad for having kept my abortion pretty secret early on, and then dropping it into conversation only when it was appropriate and felt safe for me. (Like now. O hai Hairpin!)

Your medical decisions, whatever factors went into making them, and whatever consequences they had for you -- these are not things that your are obligated to share openly and frequently on pain of losing your Feminist Card.

@Linette I had a kind of other-side-of-the-coin situation. My mom was pretty peeved that I didn't tell her about my abortion right away. I think it's understandable, in my case, on two levels: 1) She was ticked that I didn't confide in her immediately, and 2) She was upset that I thought she might not have been okay with my decision. Both of those are understandable interpersonal dynamics, and once she forgave me for not being able to share right away, and I came to understand that my mom is more pro-choice than we ever got around to in conversation beforehand, it was all good.

Posted on June 13, 2013 at 2:03 pm 2

On A Guide to Eating Very Particular Feelings

@Mayor of Butt City Seriously. I had to get up and go hyperventilate in the bathroom for a few minutes.

Posted on June 12, 2013 at 7:08 pm 1

On Do You Need a Hug?

@the roughest toughest frail As an enthusiastic-but-respectful pro-hug person, I would find that response awesome!

It actually reminds me of being told about a group of kids' camp councillors who, at the end of the day, would ask each kid "Hug, handshake, or high five?" This means that even the anti-hug kids got a bit of interaction and validation, and asking every kid every night acknowledges that sometimes our boundaries change from one day to the next.

Posted on May 17, 2013 at 2:26 pm 4

On Do You Need a Hug?

@lobsterhug Jugs hugs!

(Sorry not sorry.)

Posted on May 17, 2013 at 2:18 pm 0

On Time to Find a New Drink

@Porn Peddler YES.

Posted on May 17, 2013 at 1:58 pm 1

On Interview With a Virgin: Bette

@Quinn A@twitter Me too! She sounds delightful. I wish I could hang out with her.

Posted on April 15, 2013 at 4:31 pm 0

On My So-Called Post-Feminist Life

The other article, on bikers protecting victims of child abuse and making them feel safe, is definitely a good chaser for the big glass of HATERADE that is the Kogan piece. Fuck the patriarchy, but fuck yeah Bikers Against Child Abuse.

Posted on April 11, 2013 at 12:32 pm 6

On "Let's Frolic!": So Say We All

@garli The Portlandia bit is one of my go-to cheer-up videos. (NB: Sometimes, I need to cheer up because I have been watching BSG. It's a vicious cycle.)

Posted on April 10, 2013 at 2:11 pm 1