On Saying Sorry Is a Pretty-Girl Trick

@Flaccido Domingo Thank you. How does the author know what it feels like to be a boy in this society? How does she know it's MORE difficult to be a girl? Why are we even rating the difficulties of different genders?

Posted on August 20, 2013 at 5:43 pm 3

On Pretty Women on Bikes

@special_boots For real. Listen, I know the risks of not wearing a helmet. If I get in an accident (with a car) I'm at a greater risk of a head injury not wearing a helmet. The pleasure of not wearing a helmet greatly outweighs this risk. FOR ME. Maybe not for other people. But me not wearing a helmet has no bearing on anyone else's safety.
Know what else keeps you safe on a bike? Not riding on busy streets, bike lane or no--sticking to bike paths, and avoiding cars at all costs. A helmet is not a magical talisman that will protect you from all injury.

Posted on August 16, 2013 at 12:41 pm 2

On Pretty Women on Bikes

@Judith Slutler I won't either and it's nobody's business, especially a stranger's. I don't have to defend it. It's my head. End of story.

Posted on August 16, 2013 at 12:35 pm 1

On Pretty Women on Bikes

@shesaidshesaid Amen, sister! PREACH. Avoid cars. Ride on quiet streets. Ride on bike paths.

Posted on August 16, 2013 at 12:33 pm 0

On Pretty Women on Bikes

@yunkstahn Depends on where you live. Sidewalks in my town are not populated with pedestrians, and riding on a sidewalk is much more safe than riding on a busy street. Of course, riding on quiet suburban streets is even safer.
The safest thing that you can do is avoid cars, helmet or no.

Posted on August 16, 2013 at 12:32 pm 2


@Gulf of Finland It seems like a specific spectrum of white people too. Like peachy-cream and all it's variants. Just kind of narrow.

Posted on August 15, 2013 at 3:15 pm 0


@Tuna Surprise I came down here to say the same thing! I don't see any freckles, actually. My freckles were a source of angst for me growing up, just now accepting them. Would love to see the color projected by other other heavily freckled people.

Posted on August 15, 2013 at 3:13 pm 0

On George Saunders to the Class of 2013: "Err in the Direction of Kindness"

I guess I need to read George Saunders again. It's been about ten years, but all I remember thinking was how snarky and mean-spirited his stories were. Does anyone else feel this way?
Maybe it was just a reaction to the guy who gave me the stories, and said "this is how you should be writing" ... So, I started off wanting to hate the stories.
Anyway, going to revisit with an open mind.

Posted on August 1, 2013 at 6:04 pm 0

On "A Stripper’s Guide to the Modern American Boomtown"

@LaLoba The novelty of an experience isn't the only reason to write about an experience. Write it! I'm sure you have a different, and interesting, perspective.

Posted on July 30, 2013 at 1:46 pm 0

On Thank You So Much For Being With Me Tonight to Celebrate My Twenty-Five-And-Twelve-Month Birthday

Haha. I remember feeling this way.
If there was one thing I wish I could go back and tell my 26 year old self it's to stop worrying so much. It will work out, seriously. As long as you're not a complete asshole / lazy ass. You don't have to DO anything except pay your bills and stay healthy. Relax.
Actually I think my mom told me this exact thing and I freaked out on her. I guess I wanted to hold on to some sort of angst.

Posted on July 30, 2013 at 12:42 pm 3