On A Letter to Everyone I Know Regarding RuPaul's Drag Race GIFs

Ughhh. Roxy..! I used to be a huge fan of Roxy and Detox but they are driving me INSANE in a bad way this week. Their cliquey-ness has definitely left room for people like Ivyyy Winterrrssss to come through in competitions! (HER DRESSES ARE THE BEST DRESSES). I hope Alaska breaks free of that little threesome and does really well, though my money is on Jinkx ALL THE WAY!

Is anybody else super mad at everyone who picks on Jinkx, ESPECIALLY MICHELLE VISAGE. WHY DO YOU HURT MY POOR DRAG GIRLFRIEND'S FEELINGS ALL THE TIME?????????

This show is the best reality tv show ever invented EVER, and is the only one I watch.

Posted on March 8, 2013 at 1:22 pm 1

On "Do You Know Who You Look Like?"

@fondue with cheddar This was like, a THING when I was young. EVERY brunette with glasses "looked like Lisa Loeb". Maybe because she was the only famous person with glasses in the 1990s? I don't know!!!!

If your brother looks like Alastair, I know a lady he should meet.

Posted on February 26, 2013 at 1:56 pm 2

On "Do You Know Who You Look Like?"

I used to get Zooey Deschanel all the time when my hair was dark. I colored it platinum blonde, and still have received "You look like a blonde Zooey Deschanel!!" I'm ok with this. I was already pretty vain, so it probably just made it worse.

Posted on February 26, 2013 at 1:51 pm 1

On Ask a Person Who Just Read the Hotel Corpse Water Story

Everything is all wrong today.

Posted on February 21, 2013 at 2:51 pm 1

On Spectrums and Attractiveness

OK phew. I have read the whole thing now. I nearly wet myself when I read that breath play section. I'm agreeing with everything AQC is saying today, and I do want to add that as a kinky lady myself, You, LW2 - Are a HOT COMMODITY. Yes, you are having your sexual "identity" issues, (That I think you are thinking way too much about), and as AQC says today: you decide what you like, what you will do and what you will not do, and then make a label for it as you see fit. But there are soooo many great dudes (and ladies) who would be very willing to treat you like the lovely sub you are, with respect and awe! (You are allowed to be into non-consent, however, you MUST draw hard lines in a discussion BEFORE playtime. Breath Play is a very very serious thing, as i said before)

The one issue that I think is actually a problem (besides the shitty shitty guy you are hooking up with and you need to DTMFA if he doesn't go to Dom school) is that you are feeling guilty! Why? There is nothing to be ashamed of in sex between two consenting adults, or one consenting adult and his/her toys! I think you need to see a sex positive therapist and figure out where this guilt comes from, so you can absolve it! (easier said than done, right?) Good luck!

LW3 - I want to take you out on a date. Just FYI - some of the best sex I have had in my life came from people who were not whatever this "conventionally attractive" thing is. Don't be so hard on yourself! Chemistry is chemistry, and it has nothing to do with whatever subjective physical beauty judgments you are placing upon yourself.

Posted on February 15, 2013 at 2:52 pm 4

On Spectrums and Attractiveness

Before I even read anything else, BREATH PLAY IS VERY DANGEROUS. Please do not engage in it. Your trachea and other bits can be PERMANENTLY DAMAGED in Breath Play. PERMANENT!!

There are things you can do to "simulate" breath play, such as, having someone pretend or put a light pressure on your neck, OR some people prefer to have pressure put on their chest cavity so it makes it feel as if they are losing their breath.

Breath play is dangerous. Please please please do not do it. LW2 - Also, you are dicking around with someone without safe-words and does not appear to respect you as a person (i.e. your boundaries). Discussions about fantasies and how you want the "play" to commence is VERY IMPORTANT. Your DOM IS DOING IT WRONG. FYI - There are plenty of great Doms out there who will DO IT RIGHT. PLEASE GO FIND ONE. YOU ARE MAKING ME AFRAID FOR YOU.

Posted on February 15, 2013 at 2:37 pm 10

On Video Game Valentines

Garrus Vakarian has calibrated my heart to maximum efficiency.

Posted on February 13, 2013 at 2:21 pm 9

On Sex vs. Happiness

"Gager has looked at the same data set and found that when tasks aren't segregated into "male" or "female" chores, men who do more housework tend to have sex more often."

And there it is, folks.

Posted on January 30, 2013 at 2:04 pm 7

On Memories of Austen and "Pride and Prejudice"

Mansfield Park is THE WORST.

Posted on January 29, 2013 at 5:16 pm 4

On Affection, Gift Returns, and Professors on Facebook

LW1 - I'm sorry, but I think that you two are not romantically compatible. "Grimacing" at someone you love when they are doing something as simple as showing affection is NOT OK. NOT AT ALL. Can you imagine spending your life with someone you can't kiss on the mouth every day? There is another guy out there, who will pick you up when are riding your bicycle on the rain, and kiss you hello in that very same moment.

LW3 - "I really really do not want to lose my respect for him." If he is behaving appropriately, you won't. And if he is inappropriate, then he doesn't deserve your respect anyway. People change, and sometimes respect can be won back/bad decisions forgiven. I totally agree with what AMD said.

Posted on January 15, 2013 at 12:15 pm 17