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On Some Options for Officiating a Wedding

Yay for ULC and officiants who actually know the couple! I officiated my best friend's wedding and it was awesome, so much better than being a bridesmaid.

However, a pro tip for brides and grooms: if you are making A Statement in your use of a non-religious officiant, please give him or her the heads up. It's not that I minded that the groom's family spent the ceremony scowling at me because I was a twenty-four-year-old woman and not Reverend Great Uncle Paul, but it would have been nice to know what I was walking into ahead of time.

Posted on May 23, 2012 at 3:19 pm 0

On New Moms and Teenage Boys: More in Common Than Previously Thought

Ah, this was such a nice read. I have a much younger brother (he started kindergarten the day I started college) and this captures something about our dynamic as well.

Posted on May 8, 2012 at 8:55 pm 2

On Maurice Sendak, 1928 - 2012

Go to the wikipedia page and read the list of books he illustrated. We all (I hope?) know Where the Wild Things Are and In the Night Kitchen, but he shaped the visual imagination of my childhood in ways I'd completely forgotten about. The Wheel on the School! Little Bear!

Posted on May 8, 2012 at 9:51 am 3

On Truly Upsetting

Hands up if the Beastie Boys were the secret standard by which you judged the relative coolness of high school boyfriends/crushes.

Posted on May 4, 2012 at 3:01 pm 7

On Add It to the List of Dream Jobs

@jen325 It's a bad habit! Not only do you wind up stabbing yourself in the head when you try and take your shirt off, you lose things that way-- I bought the rare book staff at my library a box of pencils when I finished my work there, to make up for the many, many I walked out with in my hair.

Posted on May 4, 2012 at 2:28 pm 0

On Rufus Wainwright and Helena Bonham Carter

@MmeLibrarian Yes about the stereotypes... but she's reading The Way We Live Now at the end!

Posted on May 2, 2012 at 1:27 pm 1

On Rufus Wainwright and Helena Bonham Carter

@honeybunchesofoats It's because his voice isn't the same after the meth. :/

Posted on May 2, 2012 at 1:25 pm 0

On The Patient is Non-Compliant

OMG, the poor woman who had to have the IUD taken out then put back in! I'm sorry, sister!

Personally, I'd have sat through any number of pelvic exams rather than deal with the doctor who would only prescribe me BC on a month-to-month basis, and only so long as I lost weight. (Once, when I asked to use the restroom before an appointment, she accused me of trying to trick the scales. She also got angry when I complained she pinched me with the speculum. She was not a good doctor.)

Posted on May 2, 2012 at 1:19 pm 0

On [Maybe] Good Books That Defined You

@Lisa @twitter My father absolutely LOVES the Prelandra books and still holds hope that I'll come round to them eventually.

Posted on May 1, 2012 at 9:38 am 0

On [Maybe] Good Books That Defined You

As a teen, Mists of Avalon. In college, Griel Marcus' Lipstick Traces: A Secret History of the Twentieth Century. Post-college, Mayakovsky and Frank O'Hara.

And, because today is May Day, Red Emma Speaks, by Emma Goldman. I pulled it off the library shelf at random one long summer when I was about fourteen, and it was my earliest and still most influential encounter with the history of the radical left.

Posted on May 1, 2012 at 9:35 am 1