This will be my 6th sober January. I had no idea other folks had named it! I find it's an AMAZING way to center myself, lower my tolerance, focus on what matters in life, enjoy my health, and NEVER have a hangover for 30 days. I highly suggest it. But yes, having a buddy is pretty helpful.
On Mondo Labia
I came across this bit of internet a loooong time ago, and it put the labia battle in perspective for me. http://www.sexylabia.com/articles/playboy-labia.htm The point being that large labia are actually TOO sexy for mainstream, just like a fully erect penis is too sexy. So I'm gonna keep on being proud of my generous meat drapes!
I started graying at age 20, I'm 25 now. I have them, I love them. My girlfriend loves them. Not a big deal.