@yunkstahn An old coworker friend of mine was an absolute doll with terrible (dated, Eastern European in a bad geeky way) fashion sense - he actually asked a younger dude coworker friend of ours for help and BAM silver fox.
But I will also tell you, not just as A Married Dude but A Re-Married Dude, that there is no The One Meant for Me. That's fairy tale stuff. What there can be is The One I Made It Work With. Maybe this is that guy. But that "only once in a lifetime" language makes me skeptical.
Word. I wish more people knew this. It would save a lot of heartbreak.
Oh yes, N&S makes you say, "Darcy who? Mr. Darcy? Who's that? Whatever. Tell me about Mr. Thornton."
@yunkstahn I came to the comments specifically to mention North and South. Thanks for covering that. Rawr.