@Rock and Roll Ken Doll Yeah, as terrifying as jellyfish are as individuals, that's the actually scary part of the piece for me. So maybe oceans become too dangerous for swimming, that's fine (not great, but survivable). But replacing our food fisheries with jellyfish, even if we do incorporate them into our diets, is a huge problem.
@pajamaralls I can accept that.
@karenb Exaaaaaactly. To me it sounds thisclose to "I'm being discriminated against" "Are you sure you're not just being oversensitive?"
@laurel Those are three people you REALLY don't want to get to know each other, either.
So I'm in my college alumni LinkedIn group, and there was some "advice" on dealing with irritating people that I am, ironically, infuriated by. (One note - it's not specifically directed at women, but I'm reacting as though it is, in part no doubt because it was written by a woman and blah blah internalized sexism, but also in part because it's the kind of shit women get all. the. time.)
The worst offender is suggestion #2 - ask yourself "What are the real facts here, versus the assumptions I’m making?" On the surface, sure, that seems like a great idea. It's always good to evaluate a situation as much as possible before you get too settled on a course of action. But the implication is basically 1) you can't trust your own lived experience (which, you know, classic gaslighting) and 2) that whatever's going on with other people is more important than what's going on with you (which is messaging women get constantly, that you have to take care of everyone before you take care of yourself.
Also this was the slowest week in the entire world and I'm on the west coast which means I have four more hours of this shit and I'm not sure I can take it.
@oh! valencia I was about to post something about how I was sad that I couldn't find that on Tumblr anymore, and then I remembered that I've been re-listening to old episodes so they're on my iPod, and so I present to you:
@fondue with cheddar
@Judith Slutler Truth. Apparently I'm just really susceptible to "it's your job to make everyone happy" feelings this morning? I just need to keep repeating my mantra: "Their problem, not mine. Their problem, not mine. Their problem, not mine."
HAIRYCOOCH ANIMORPH jia i swear i did not make that up that's the first one i got