@victorian rose Glad to hear you're doing well this week. Be patient with yourself if you have ups and downs. I think you're going to rock this break-up and learn a lot from it.
@victorian rose UGH, YES, THAT. Can you schedule a massage? Or even just get an appointment to have your hair washed and blown-out? I really hope you feel better soon.
@victorian rose I say this with all empathy and best wishes for you -- you said it would be easier if he had actually SAID he didn't want to be with you...
PRETEND THAT HE SAID THAT EXACTLY. I absolutely believe in good and bad timing, but I also believe that a person won't quit on someone they truly, truly want to be with. He might change his mind and come back for a second go at things, but in the meantime, just PRETEND HE SAID he didn't want to be with you, ever. It will hurt more but it will enable you to move forward and be prepared for the chance that he may NOT come back for a second go. Big squeezy hugs to you, and take care of yourself. xo
AHHHHHH, be back never, got stuck clicking all of the "You Might Also Like" tabs on this site.
@Faintly Macabre AAAAAH, I just read your story of interviewing upthread. What a rotten feeling it is, just not knowing but wanting something so badly. I'll be thinking of you and I hoping you get the job. You deserve good things!
@VDRE Aw, bummer! Look on the bright side: maybe at the next one we won't all* be sweaty melt-monsters.
*In fairness, it could just be me.
@RK Fire I LOVE ALL OF YOU PEOPLE.
@pajamaralls Thank you thank you thank you!