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On On Second Chances

@Myrtle word. I am sucker for the guilt. And the crazy ones know that.

Posted on May 11, 2012 at 5:46 pm

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On On Second Chances

@librasaurus Agreed. Sometimes things just suck. And there are no second chances. Only sucky situations that suck.

Posted on May 9, 2012 at 10:42 am

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@The Kendragon Every single one of my ex's who have done beyond shitty things to me say this. And it's always followed up by "I love you! We were so great together." I don't get it. And sometimes I buy into but then my lovely bff says, "if you are so horrible why do they all want you back?". Men!, amiright?!

Posted on May 9, 2012 at 10:40 am

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On On Second Chances

LW do not be this guy that I am about to describe. After summer/fall of crazy drama, I decided to cut the ties and move on with my life. He lost his job and decided to MOVE OUT to where I am, even after I told him not to/I am dating somebody. After feeling guilty and trying to "help him" (I mean, he moved! to be with me! he has no job!) I realized that was his plan all along and now I basically hate him because he used guilt to get his way, with no regard for what I wanted. If you move LW, you will be him. And eventually she will wise up and not like you.

Posted on May 9, 2012 at 10:27 am

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Posted on May 9, 2012 at 10:26 am

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On Toxic Dating, "Abominable" Sisters, and the French Manicure

@redheaded&crazie I think it's time to get off the escalator... I've been riding it far too long. Thank you for this article.

Posted on May 4, 2012 at 3:34 pm

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On Toxic Dating, "Abominable" Sisters, and the French Manicure

@sugar cubism Saw this quote on facebook the other day (I know! I know!) but I loved it and it gave me a moment (which, again... I know, facebook quote): You accept the love you think you deserve.
My point LW#1: YOU DESERVE MORE.

Posted on May 4, 2012 at 2:48 pm

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On Toxic Dating, "Abominable" Sisters, and the French Manicure

@redheaded&crazie They never get it, do they? (Seriously, I am getting angry right now thinking about him never getting it).

Posted on May 4, 2012 at 2:43 pm

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On Toxic Dating, "Abominable" Sisters, and the French Manicure

@LeafySeaDragon My therapist says anger is a way to make sure you don't go back to shitty situations. Which is good because I the VP of the angry grudgey bitch club in regards to my exs.

Posted on May 4, 2012 at 2:42 pm

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