I had a best friend from college who moved across the country and I saw only rarely. She asked me to be a bridesmaid and I met her fiance about three months before the wedding, for one night, where he spent the whole time sulking and making rude comments because he was upset we wanted to sit and talk rather than go to a club and dance. The next day he sent me a message on facebook apologizing, which I never responded to. I was in the wedding that fall, where he made a gross comment to me about touching my butt. Before the wedding my friend and I talked regularly, if not often, but it's been three and a half years since the wedding and we haven't spoken once. I feel weird about it because she was a dear friend and I miss her, but now I've let so much time go by that it feels too late. Also, I just. . .kind of hate her husband.