@Gilgongo Haha, trust me, i thought i felt the same way until i was there. And i didn't get any of them off, i felt no obligation to. When the whole night is centered on having a ton of sexy fun, getting off is way less of a race.
There were a ton of women there getting theirs, and I'm sure I'll have my time there too, that's just not how it went for me this time. I also didn't approach anyone or ask for anything, so that's on me.
@wryredhead Hey there, i am the interviewee, and i understand seeing that in this interview mostly because of general life knowledge, but it is not the case. I am very self aware and i know my husband and trust him completely. The fact that group sex wasn't something i considered before i knew him doesn't mean it wasn't a fantasy of mine, it means i was never in a relationship where i would feel safe indulging in it until now. That's a huge difference.
@mirah Unfortunately, as far as I've researched, many swinger's clubs have a "no openly guy-on-guy" rule. This club did not have such a rule, thankfully. One of the strangers I fellated was helping out the guy next to him. That was as much as I noticed, but I wasn't paying close attention to people in other rooms, as I was otherwise occupied (-;