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@supernintendochalmers I am a Libra. I'm getting married next month. I'm a little terrified by this.
Joan Fontaine is fab. And I like Liz Taylor's from 1961 even though it looks like something you could buy on ModCloth.
I like how mad he is at first, like "Why can't I fucking walk?!" Then he gets it.
Well you got all us Librans' numbers. Wow, amazing.
Musically I really like this version but man she does not sound great. Not sure if it's her voice or just the weird clipped way she's choosing to sing it but I'm feeling very conflicted about it.
I find it pretty weird that musician/waterer of house plants was the only one I recognized right off the bat. Music and Lyrics is an experience that really stays with you, I guess.
EDIT: Nope, forgot that I also got Harold and Maude.
@katekatekateyeah I feel you. I'm not even sure that much of it has to do with content. It's just what happens when a site gets more popular and suddenly goes from feeling like your own little corner of the Internet to just being the same as everywhere else, with random shouty commenters, people dropping in from Facebook or Twitter or Reddit or whatever with no context. And so we find a new little corner, and eventually the process starts all over again...
@mirah I agree, and I would also say that it baffles me a little bit that so many people seem to think that their reaction to this piece is the only one that's valid. Many commenters have expressed how much this hit home for them. Maybe it didn't for you, or was even offensive in light of your own life experiences--well, that's kind of the nature of the Internet.
@annie d m@twitter Do we really think it's not possible to feel that our past behavior was incredibly wrong-headed and also acknowledge that it led us to become the people we are today, for better or worse? I really don't understand this "she didn't learn anything!" line of criticism here.
Obviously this author's experience is really relatable to some people and really galling to others. I often have a bit of a chip on my shoulder when it comes to people who grew up with privilege (which I very much did not) but she seems pretty honestly self-reflective about it here, which is why I can't quite grok all the raginess.