@klemay This is such a US-centric argument. People worldwide, of all races, listen to hip hop, r&b, and rap, written by black, American artists who make a shit-ton of money off it. Would it have the appeal it does were it not from the US? Intersectionality doesn't end at race. What annoys me the most about these discussions is how Americans completely ignore the worldwide influence they have, but are happy to reap its benefits.
@hexamaam I suspect the point isn't that those things are exactly equivalent, but that sex is a socially acceptable outlet for men to give and receive affection. So while it is definitely not the same as having a heart-to-heart with a friend or hugging people you like, it's the closest that's allowed.
I don't agree 100% with the article, btw, but I see some sense in that idea, by itself.
@wee_ramekin Yeah, for some reason that shit just got me upset too and I scrolled down to see comments. Something about the rudeness and narcissism of it that really pissed me off. The part where she wonders if he's a "prude" is the worst - no, LW4, the reason people don't like it is because we're not turned on or are otherwise impressed by you and your boyfriend getting it on. Your attraction to each other affects only the two of you, the rest of us don't care. Odds are, we are grossed out. Get a clue.