ANMD: A Non-Monogamous Couple here. We just wanted to chime in and assert that this column is in no way associated with us, despite being formatted similarly. We may not be asked to write columns anymore, but we have our tiny legacy to consider.
ANML: And we do not endorse its views. LW1, you don't HAVE to give your husband a blowjob! Nobody has to give anybody a blowjob, not even if they're in prison at knifepoint. And if your husband loves you the way you deserve to be loved, he will respect that.