Is He a Crazy Douchebag Wizard?

Long time reader, first time writer. With a big mess of a problem. I can't talk about this with anyone I know, because I'm certain I'm going to look like a huge ass (and he will too, which I don't want). I think I already know what's going to happen here, but I guess I need confirmation or something. Or maybe it's not that bad and I should roll with it (probably not)? Let's see... READ MORE

Boyfriends' Mothers, "Compassion," and Les Misérables

1. My husband and I are religious, so that meant no messing around — at all — before we got married, which ... obviously has pros and many cons, but after a year and a half I think we have the basics down. BUT. I just cannot get myself to give him a blow job. I can't do it! It seems so gross to me. I feel bad because he's gone down on me lots of times, and I've never returned the favor. We've talked about it and he's really nice about it; he says he would like to try it out, but he doesn't want me to do anything I'm not comfortable with. So part of me thinks, great! I'll never have to worry about it, but the other part of me wants him to experience that. So, two questions: 1) should I worry about it at all, and 2) if yes, how can I make myself do it? It's all salty down there ... Please don't say I don't have to swallow. That's not the only gross part to me. READ MORE