Oh my god. Thank you for sharing this experience. I have not yet had (or tried to have) any children but I saw my mother go through several miscarriages (one of which I was too young to understand)and this made me weep for both her and you.
Also, thank you to Belle for being so open about her struggles as she fights addiction. You're a brave girl and I think talking openly about these issues can really help others as well.
Oxy abuse is a serious issue in this country which is also leading to higher rates of heroin abuse. I have a close family member who died from overdose in 2009 through use of prescription opiates. The site OxyWatchdog is a great resource for those interested in helping change US policy and/or helping their family members who are struggling with opiate addiction.http://oxywatchdog.com/
I love this! You rock that spandex, girl.
I was always freakishly skinny as a kid, no matter how much I ate. So much so that other kids called me (disgustingly) Somalian girl and my own aunt said I looked like an alien. (yes, really) It took me a long time to get over feeling awkward in my skin and to realize that others' opinions about my body have no real bearing on my value as a human.
I vote for Tiny Fey! Or Amy Poehler! Maybe Both of them together?
"A little trumpet de la rumpet" is my new favorite phrase.
I didn't drink until junior year of high school and yet my first drunk experience was strikingly similar (except the apartment was a friend's parents house..they were not thrilled when they came home)
I usually 100% agree with AHP but I think a crucial component here is the fact that, although this show is written in the present, it deals with the issues (and ways of life) in the past. I also don't get the sense from the way the servant characters (and even some of the lady characters) are written that they're all 100% fulfilled - they certainly sometimes long for a life outside the constrictions of society. I guess we'll see what happens in the second half of the season as well... On a lighter note, I 100% agree with @LooseBaggyMonster. Pictures of those two, especially out of costume and character, make me totally SWOON.
On Sweet Dee
My best friend battled (and beat) stage 4 cancer (a really rare form in her limbs) nearly 10 years ago, so DAMN do I know how you feel. Congrats, Dee! I hope you both have a lovely 2014. There's nothing like having that best friend, a true fighter, by your side.
I'd also like to add that I have an few much younger cousins who are little terrors (a few years ago they broke an antique family lamp in our house, let our dog out and he was gone for two days, and refused to eat the food we provided, etc) and their parents blamed US for being frustrated or angry. My parents, who have clearly had young children and know what its like, could not believe the way they behaved. Some people (my uncle included) don't believe in telling their children "NO" anymore because "It's a negative word." The sad fact is there are boundaries in the world and those kids will hear that word eventually. I just think people don't want to admit it when they or their children are wrong but that's a horrible and selfish attitude to pass down through generations.
I think there are a few issues here. I should start by mentioning that a) I do not have any children of my own and b) I would like to someday, but I don't think that makes my friends who never want children "child haters."
As Edith mentions in her response, when you have a child your house is chaos and things get ruined. The problem is that the guests are not respecting (nor teaching their children to respect) the fact that the house and the things are NOT theirs to take/ruin/insult. The person who wrote the question mentions: "Neither sets of parents ever apologized, acknowledged, or showed any accountability or even awareness of their kids' bad behaviors." I think this is KEY. Yes, kids can be crazy, but that doesn't mean they should be allowed to run rampant, or at least take responsibility/apologize for damage they do cause (especially at age nine!)