On Big Lesbian Feelings, Fearful Mothers, and Proper Pronouns

@aycaramba I think there's a miscommunication between the LW and AQC.

LW: "How/when should I tell people I'm not looking for an actual relationship?"

AQC: "you said you were looking for an “actual relationship.” In fact, you’re looking for multiple actual relationships. Casual, short-term, and non-monogamous relationships are still relationships, and should be treated as such!"

I think this affected the entire response :(

Posted on September 11, 2014 at 6:54 pm 0

On The Best Time I (Maybe) Got Rabies

So good I forgot it was about rabies!

Posted on September 2, 2014 at 5:10 pm 3

On More Adventurous

I love Rilo Kiley! "More Adventurous" is a solid album for any mood. "The Execution of All Things" is darker and "Take Offs and Landings" has more variety (including songs NOT sung by Jenny).

Also, I recommend watching "Ira & Abby" - it has several Rilo Kiley songs and also Chris Messina before he got hot(ter) on The Mindy Project!

Posted on August 22, 2014 at 2:41 pm 1

On The Best Friends of Rom Com Heroines, In Order

Kate from Only You! Yay!!

Posted on August 20, 2014 at 2:20 pm 1

On An Important Conversation about Choices and Business

@HelloTheFuture I've only known him as Rube from Dead Like Me, so it never even occurred to me to think of him that way...

Posted on August 19, 2014 at 4:49 pm 0

On The Hairpin Rom Com Club: My Best Friend's Wedding

@EM87 Good nomination! I really liked how it was JGL's character who wanted commitment, somehow it made me feel less alone in my previous struggles with wanting to be with someone who didn't want to be with anyone...

Posted on August 19, 2014 at 4:39 pm 0

On The Hairpin Rom Com Club: My Best Friend's Wedding

@Choire Sicha@facebook This was my favourite movie when I was a kid! I remember watching it with my mom and asking "Why can't she just marry George?" And my mom said "Because he's gay!" My child brain could not understand why two friends couldn't get married and be happy together.

Posted on August 19, 2014 at 4:37 pm 0

On Apologia

I always cry when I'm having a difficult conversation. I started seeing a counselor for my "communication issues" because the *way* I said something would take away from what I was actually saying. My counselor told me that I should start these conversations with the disclaimer, "I need to talk to you about something, but I will probably start crying. It is involuntary, so please don't let it distract you from what I'm trying to say." My relationships and communication have improved since I started these sessions, but I can tell you that I hate how crying is often seen as a sign of weakness instead of an indication of how much you care.

Posted on August 14, 2014 at 1:44 pm 2

On Friday Open Thread

@Rookie (not the magazine) (not that there's anything wrong with that) I am so impressed that you did stand-up! I admire you :)

Posted on May 2, 2014 at 6:01 pm 0

On What I’ve Learned About the Weddings I Remembered

"If you look at that original post, it has more than 200 comments on it". New posts rarely have more than 10 comments these days :(

Posted on April 30, 2014 at 6:31 pm 0