On Love Yourself the Way Drake Loves the Toronto Raptors Mascot

@ru_ri Agree. Tea is definitely more of a comfort food for me than any other food. Also see: long baths with a book.

Posted on November 19, 2014 at 4:28 pm 0

On What Jean Rhys Taught Me About Loneliness

What a beautiful essay. It moved Rhys up higher on my "to read soon" list. And I was pleased to learn about the connection to Ford Madox Ford, having recently read Parade's End and the Good Soldier.

Thanks for the lovely, moving book recommendations!

Posted on July 28, 2014 at 12:39 pm 0

On Hard Out Here for a White Feminist

@klemay Totally late to this thread and not an especially common commenter - but I would very much like to vote for some way to red flag spam! It's been driving me crazy on the site and I get if editors don't want to review every single comment to try to catch it, but I'm happy to make it easier on you if you give me a button to do so.

I still tend to like most of the comment discussions on the site, for the record. Even when voices I don't so much agree with pop up, the responses are often thoughtful.

Posted on November 20, 2013 at 1:18 pm 0

On Charming Uphill Both Ways in the Snow

@raised amongst catalogs I thought of this guy:


Who kind of reminds me of Lee Pace, so makes sense!

Posted on May 29, 2013 at 5:40 pm 0

On "Do You Know Who You Look Like?"

@paddlepickle This is what I get a lot. Usually followed by "It's a compliment!" But my boobs are awesome, so they probably totally beat Sarah's.

Posted on March 1, 2013 at 5:21 pm 0

On What Happened When I Tried to Read a Whole Book

Heh. And you know it won't happen, because who flosses regularly?

Posted on December 12, 2012 at 7:19 pm 0

On "I also really wanted the show to be about the fear of sex."

"It's like that one scene with Martin Starr as Bill eating and watching TV and just BUSTING A GUT happily, you know? He didn't need your approval. You know."

This is one of my favorite scenes in anything ever.

Posted on December 11, 2012 at 8:29 pm 0

On Drunk Pics, Hot Sisters, and Long-Distance Dumping

@.abbey As someone who has been dumped on my birthday - I must disagree,

I've read/heard before that when people get pissed off about the way they're broken up with, they're almost always just pissed off that they got broken up with at all. While this is often true, I can say with certainty that many months later, I no longer care in the least about the guy who dumped me/being dumped, but I'm still pissed that my birthday was ruined cause dude couldn't wait until the day after to have that conversation.

No, there's never a good time to break up with sometime. But there are definitely some times that are considerably better than others and it's worth it to have some tact in approaching these things.

Posted on December 1, 2012 at 9:34 pm 2

On Beyond Clarice: Underrated Horror Heroines

I respectfully submit: Jamie from Halloweens 4 and 5. Not only is she a pretty impressive heroine who can deal with some shit, but she's also a kid.

As an actress and a character, I was pretty blown away by how impressive the kid did in those movies.

Posted on October 31, 2012 at 9:00 am 0

On Debt-Sharing and Mismatched Ambition

@Nicole Cliffe Yeah, he's thinking super short term. When she pays off her loans, what will the relationship and money sharing responsibilities look like? Will she start to buy nice things and not share with him? Go on fancy vacations alone and make him play babysitter? Make him pay for his part in any meal she buys groceries for or cooks?

What happens if he loses his job? They have a kid together, it's not like she can kick him out if he can't keep paying his part of the rent rent, but the way he's acting he'd deserve it. They're not roomates, they're spouses with shared responsibilities. What a spoiled child, makes me think of how often my 4 year old nephew says "Mine!" - hopefully he'll learn to grow out of it before marriage and child rearing comes into play.

Posted on August 17, 2012 at 3:04 pm 12