I'm so surprised Suffering for Suffrage wasn't on your list. But then I heard it repeatedly sung by the best singer at my high school when we did the School House Rock Play and I'm convinced she was actually better than the original.
I have memories of dancing backstage every show during that song.
Thank you for this. Ann Patchett is my favorite and reading this made me simultaneously giddily happy and insanely jealous of you.
@ru_ri Agree. Tea is definitely more of a comfort food for me than any other food. Also see: long baths with a book.
What a beautiful essay. It moved Rhys up higher on my "to read soon" list. And I was pleased to learn about the connection to Ford Madox Ford, having recently read Parade's End and the Good Soldier.
Thanks for the lovely, moving book recommendations!
@klemay Totally late to this thread and not an especially common commenter - but I would very much like to vote for some way to red flag spam! It's been driving me crazy on the site and I get if editors don't want to review every single comment to try to catch it, but I'm happy to make it easier on you if you give me a button to do so.
I still tend to like most of the comment discussions on the site, for the record. Even when voices I don't so much agree with pop up, the responses are often thoughtful.
@raised amongst catalogs I thought of this guy:
Who kind of reminds me of Lee Pace, so makes sense!
@paddlepickle This is what I get a lot. Usually followed by "It's a compliment!" But my boobs are awesome, so they probably totally beat Sarah's.
Heh. And you know it won't happen, because who flosses regularly?
"It's like that one scene with Martin Starr as Bill eating and watching TV and just BUSTING A GUT happily, you know? He didn't need your approval. You know."
This is one of my favorite scenes in anything ever.
@.abbey As someone who has been dumped on my birthday - I must disagree,
I've read/heard before that when people get pissed off about the way they're broken up with, they're almost always just pissed off that they got broken up with at all. While this is often true, I can say with certainty that many months later, I no longer care in the least about the guy who dumped me/being dumped, but I'm still pissed that my birthday was ruined cause dude couldn't wait until the day after to have that conversation.
No, there's never a good time to break up with sometime. But there are definitely some times that are considerably better than others and it's worth it to have some tact in approaching these things.