Last sentence, so powerful. Lovely as usual.
@Katie Walsh I was making pumpkin bread during a family Christmas, and a few people decided to help out. Unknown to me, my sister added pumpkin after I had already added it. I baked for like two hours and the inside was still raw. Yet people still ate it. I'm not sure what that says about my family.
@LilyB There's a group photo or two of my family at my dad's funeral with the open casket. I don't love looking at them, but I understand the sentiment. In a way, it's not that much different from how the Victorians used to prop up the remains of their loved ones and get pictures taken (with and without living relatives in the photo). It's a way to try to fit in one more memory with that person, and especially at a funeral when you are probably still in shock and out of it with grief, looking back at the pictures might help some people process, or remember who was there, etc.
@isavedlatin And Glenn Close fought hard to have the film retain the original ending, which was Alex killing herself and framing Gallagher for her death. She felt like the crazed killer ending was a total betrayal of her character and contributed to stigmas against mental illness.
On Two Victors
I'm so sorry for your loss. And glad you had the kindness of strangers who helped ease the day just a tiny bit.
The poppies start pouring out of a Tower window, making it feel even more like a sea of blood. http://www.thisiscolossal.com/2014/07/tower-of-london-poppies/
@ratatat @Rookie, you can also do ICE (in case of emergency) in front of a contact's name to make it easy to find if someone is looking in your contact list. No reason why you couldn't designate a few contacts as ICE1, ICE2, etc in order of preferred contact.
No charges or remorse for killing the peasants and trying to poison her serving girl? Not surprising necessarily, but still disgusting.
As someone who is asexual, I found this piece kind of offensive. Yes, the guy was absolutely wrong about dating a teenager (which the article glossed over, as if that were the most trivial of his offenses). But I don't know that he was a big lying liar with DANGER written all over him. Should he have been honest up front and say I'm a romantic asexual and I'd like to try sex but I really don't know if it will work for me? Probably. But there are lots of big things that only an individual can gauge when they're ready to divulge in a relationship. When does one tell their partner they're trans? Or bi? Or they have low sex drive? Or they're intersex? Or they were sexually assaulted? Or that they're into a certain fetish (or BDSM)? All different situations that may come into play in a sexual relationship (or relationship in general); and I don't know that there is a right answer for when to divulge. I mean probably before you're celebrating your 15th anniversary. But do you have to share them before the first time you have sex? I don't know.
What happened to them was sad, and not really fair to either of them. But what I found offensive that almost one of the first things she asks is what his therapist says about him being asexual (subtext, clearly there's something wrong with you or you wouldn't be asexual). And then she quotes her ignorant friends who refuse to believe in his asexuality, as if what, they're experts? Finally she quotes Dan fucking Savage, who is completely utterly ignorant and awful when it comes to asexuality (not to mention his awfulness about being trans); as evidenced by his quote about not believing asexuality is a real thing. I appreciate her end paragraph, but what came before was pretty awful.
Siggi's for sure. The only kind of greek yogurt that does it for me is Tillamook Farmstyle Greek Cinnamon Hazelnut, which is pretty spectacular.