On The Erotic Thrill of Michael Douglas

@isavedlatin And Glenn Close fought hard to have the film retain the original ending, which was Alex killing herself and framing Gallagher for her death. She felt like the crazed killer ending was a total betrayal of her character and contributed to stigmas against mental illness.

Posted on September 22, 2014 at 3:24 pm 1

On Two Victors

I'm so sorry for your loss. And glad you had the kindness of strangers who helped ease the day just a tiny bit.

Posted on August 12, 2014 at 5:13 pm 1

On How to Make 888,246 Ceramic Poppies for the Dead

The poppies start pouring out of a Tower window, making it feel even more like a sea of blood. http://www.thisiscolossal.com/2014/07/tower-of-london-poppies/

Posted on August 6, 2014 at 6:09 pm 0

On In Case of Emergency

@ratatat @Rookie, you can also do ICE (in case of emergency) in front of a contact's name to make it easy to find if someone is looking in your contact list. No reason why you couldn't designate a few contacts as ICE1, ICE2, etc in order of preferred contact.

Posted on August 1, 2014 at 10:27 pm 0

On The Big Book of Female Killers, Chapter 2: The Marquise de Brinvilliers

No charges or remorse for killing the peasants and trying to poison her serving girl? Not surprising necessarily, but still disgusting.

Posted on July 16, 2014 at 8:33 pm 0

On Falling in Love with an Asexual

As someone who is asexual, I found this piece kind of offensive. Yes, the guy was absolutely wrong about dating a teenager (which the article glossed over, as if that were the most trivial of his offenses). But I don't know that he was a big lying liar with DANGER written all over him. Should he have been honest up front and say I'm a romantic asexual and I'd like to try sex but I really don't know if it will work for me? Probably. But there are lots of big things that only an individual can gauge when they're ready to divulge in a relationship. When does one tell their partner they're trans? Or bi? Or they have low sex drive? Or they're intersex? Or they were sexually assaulted? Or that they're into a certain fetish (or BDSM)? All different situations that may come into play in a sexual relationship (or relationship in general); and I don't know that there is a right answer for when to divulge. I mean probably before you're celebrating your 15th anniversary. But do you have to share them before the first time you have sex? I don't know.
What happened to them was sad, and not really fair to either of them. But what I found offensive that almost one of the first things she asks is what his therapist says about him being asexual (subtext, clearly there's something wrong with you or you wouldn't be asexual). And then she quotes her ignorant friends who refuse to believe in his asexuality, as if what, they're experts? Finally she quotes Dan fucking Savage, who is completely utterly ignorant and awful when it comes to asexuality (not to mention his awfulness about being trans); as evidenced by his quote about not believing asexuality is a real thing. I appreciate her end paragraph, but what came before was pretty awful.

Posted on June 26, 2014 at 4:10 pm 1

On Iceland vs Greece

Siggi's for sure. The only kind of greek yogurt that does it for me is Tillamook Farmstyle Greek Cinnamon Hazelnut, which is pretty spectacular.

Posted on June 25, 2014 at 1:29 pm 0

On RIP, Ruby Dee

I love Ruby Dee so much. What an amazing person she was.

Posted on June 12, 2014 at 6:03 pm 0

On You Belong To Me

This was really lovely, thank you.

Posted on June 12, 2014 at 2:07 pm 0

On Let's Lift Some Beans: The 15-Minute Workout

Yay new video! I hate workouts that are all about how women have to be lean and skinny and bulking up is bad.

Posted on June 12, 2014 at 2:05 pm 0