@stonefruit I wanna know! I love how we always seem to congregate in the same places, though, usually without anyone telling us to (and now I wonder if I know any Pinners IRL).
@stonefruit Now the important question: how many Pinners are Mawrters?
This is why I always laugh when I hear people talk about how women dominate YA.
Then it was pointed out to me that I should really get out my YA manuscript starring a boy because editors and agents are eating that shit up and actively looking for it (even though it's already the majority!) I'll cry if that's the one that gets picked up (it's good and I love the character but come on!) I mean I'd cry if any of them get picked up but these would be mixed tears of joy and sad irony.
@dontannoyme Yuuup so true. A friend told me about how she went to a prestigious live-in writer's workshop, and when asked about their favorite and most influential writers, the women had lists of men and women, but the men only listed male writers. Every. Last. Man. And these are generally progressive and already somewhat successful writers! Boggled the mind how none of them saw their own bias.
@estelle_firefly Oh man that French dude post is when I stopped reading even though I was aware of the problems waaaay before (all my favorite commenters were being run off, for ex). It had to be years ago but I'm surprised at how you said "the french dude post" and I can still remember it. Fuckin' gross.
@Better to Eat You With Could be iron. A friend recommended more iron when I said I was run down/tired in the afternoon with no diet change, so I took a multivitamin and BAM like magic in two weeks I felt great. Lots of women are prone to anemia even if you're getting the recommended amount of iron. Friend fixed hers with more veggies, but it didn't work for me.
Or it could be placebo effect.
Oh no, you make it hard for women to marry or have kids while still being actors in the world, they won't wanna do it?
What kills me is that this lesson is probably going to lead more "women out of the workplace! You belong at home!" than it would to better economic opportunity, at least in other countries looking in a similar direction. This has been an issue for a long time in Japan (it's something I heard about when I stayed with friends over a decade ago) but they haven't found ways to fix it beyond throwing up their hands and going "women! Emasculated men!"
@Sea Ermine Out of college 4 friends with STEM degrees, only one went on into science and she's planning on med school, the rest have even worse job prospects than I do. I have a useless humanities degree and did a stint in a molecular pathology lab despite really poor chemistry and math scores tanking my dreams of a science-y future (shockingly, I could calculate mols on the job just fine! But you wouldn't know it from my grades.) It's also just slightly above minimum wage and no benefits, so it worked as a between undergrad and grad job, but definitely not something I'd ask people to aspire to.
Still. I did more STEM work than my scientist friends, post-internships.
@karenb "Put it down at the end of the day" is something I learned way too late is maybe my #1 desire in a job--ahead of fulfilling and interesting, even. I just want to clock out after my 8 hours, go home, and do something that matters.
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@T A@twitter I was gonna say, aren't the Danes (and Nordic/Scandinavian people in general) stereotyped as being ridiculously attractive? Just goes to show, sexism means not being able to appreciate a beautiful woman if you can't own her.