This is such a lovely piece! I'm an atheist, but struggle to explain some of my feminist and pro-religion views to people (read: my angsty gentleman). She has a graceful, eloquent, honest way with words, and I need that in my life.
Thank you for doing this interview!
I love this too. It's beautiful and I think describes a very common feeling, even if we don't all take it so far. Retail therapy was one of my fondest indulgences when I was homeless, and I so very much looked forward to saving up enough for just one tiny thing to make myself feel better. It matters. It so very much does.
I'm glad it's here, and not on the Billfold, because the comments would just be reaming her for her choices.
On "Laughing Through the Tears": Talking With Jessie Kahnweiler About Her Dark Comedy, Meet My Rapist
God, this whole thing was perfect. "Can you give me a ride? You kinda owe me one." The parents. The totally awful friend. The therapist - "Nobody wants to marry a rape victim." Just so perfect. Thank you for doing this interview and posting the film.
I really wish they had Get The Fuck Over It pills though.
@Onymous Mazdas are awesome. Take it to get its oil changed before you buy it - most places will give the car a once-over and tell you about anything egregiously wrong, plus you just got the oil changed and you don't have to worry about that for a few months. It's like $20-40, and cheaper than taking it to a mechanic, etc.
Source: Bought a car, took it for an oil change, they found a zillion things wrong with it, car didn't last 6 months.
@PomoFrannyGlass That's kiiiiind of weird. On the one hand, there's the black-out wasted-faceness, and on the other, there's your ex. Is there an apology anywhere from your friend? I feel like, while not a Time Machine, an apology would help.
You should go for a drive somewhere scenic with lots of uninterrupted highway.
I'm kind of freaking out, because my boyfriend wants to get married by the end of the year, for taxes and stuff. This is WAY sooner than "in a couple years" so he wants to keep it secret, and then have a wedding later.
Most of my friends are telling me it'll be great, I'll get spiffy health insurance, "Are you happy? Then you'll be fine" etc etc, but then one of my younger coworkers said "It sounds like he's trapping you!" And THAT is exactly how I feel. Uhhhhg. Trapped. With the man I love. Forever. Or until loads of paperwork do us part.
Also I gave him herpes. Also my health insurance hasn't kicked in yet and I'm finally ready to actually see a shrink and deal with my crap. Also he's 32 and I'm 27 and he's getting to that baby-making time. Also he is really awesome and puts up with me and seems to like me even when I'm a cranky poop.
These look so. freaking. cute. And these women are doing amazing work. Uhhg I need a job! <3
@Brunhilde OMG you are fantastic and I love you forever.
@City_Dater This also works on boyfriends. Mine calls me "Krampus" when I make a frowny face and crab hands. And he fucking loves it. I made him giggle once :)
WHAT. Uhggggg I am so glad I stopped watching 2 seasons ago? When Addy got really baby crazy, I just couldn't deal with it anymore since I am a little bit terrified of wanting children? And swapped back to Greys. AHG I KNEW LEXIE WAS GONNA DIE IN THAT CRASH I KNEW IT I KNEW IT.
But this. PETE?! Why didn't anyone tell me about Pete?!?!?!? Also OMFG Amelia :( :( :( But at least Naomi is bomb, except for having to deal with oh I don't know, EVERYTHING.
I do, however, love Addison till death do us part. Her HAIR. Her sassiness. Her passion. Her HAIR some more!