I loved reading what you & Emma did with the site, Jia. I probably talked about the music most, but I know that a lot of the words here, and the expansions they've made to my thinking about the world, will be what stays with me forever.
Hmm on one hand I despise Canada. On the other hand, this new editor seems really great.
Also, I refuse to believe all cottages aren't basically the first little pigs house that the wolf blew down. (although that makes them seem really charming to me, conflicting AGAIN with my anti-candian bias)
Guilty Of: 1-3, 5-7, 9, 11
Receiving End Of: Same
@j-i-a i'm thrilled to be a 1-percenter & all, but i feel like my uncles that had to buy motorcyles & sell meth to get that label might make fun of me when i explain why i just put this patch on my sleeveless denim jacket.
DIPSET DIPSET DIPSET
Dipset is the greatest. You know those people in the late 70s / early 80s that rode around in camaros with droopy eyelids, softpacks of marlboro reds rolled up in tshirt sleeves, tight jeans, baggy shirts, warm schaffer beer, in poolhalls and parking lots, denim jackets, listenin' to def leppard and ac/dc and thin lizzy? (AKA my mom & dad & aunts/uncles/etc)?
I really feel like dipset is the 2002-2006-ish version of that. Which is why I fucking love it, I guess. Juelz, Jim, Cam, and Freekey forever.
I'm fascinated by the ideas of how gender shapes fandomm and in turn by how becoming a fan of things we like socializes gender norms into us.
Having been a sci-fi dork when I was little and then moving away from that and ending up a sports geek as a grown dude, I see a lot of the same typically male stances in both - obsession with numbers and lists over actual story, competition to know the most obscure relevant trivia, fandom as a battleground.
I wonder, are these traits we bring to our fandom because of the way we've been taught to perform our gender? Or maybe do we think that 'the way to act' in life is the way we learn to act in our little clique at 7 years old, be it obsessed with Star Wars or Baseball or Motors?
I dunno anything about what little girls are like, so maybe I'm way off?
@eizverson22 Does it make me horribly uncool to admit that I'll always love the stuff w/ Meg better than any of his other projects?
Ahhh I love this. Other than The Giving Tree, this is like, my personal all-time list of fave kids books....
...and The Giving Tree joke is especially awesome. My mom always tells me it was her favorite book to read to me, and her favorite book about being a mom...
Which, like, woh, ma. GO DO YOU A LI'L BIT. My mom is really dope and is pursuing totally her-own things post-kids, but I always feel so bummed seeing this. She shouldn't be a giving tree! SHAKE YOUR OWN LEAVES FOR YOUR OWN SELF MA, LOVE YA.
i think a ghost just punched me in the stomach.
(i did not know this poem and now love it tho)
I began to think of it on the occasion of Marquez passing, but it's really amazing how few books that you love when you are 16-20 hold up, or that you can still love without being slightly embarrassed by (if only for the cultural connotations - I still adore Gatsby, but can't stand to talk about it these days)
What is that list like? I think for me, It's "100 Years of Solitude", "The Little Prince", "Jane Eyre", and "Great Expectations".
(I'm leaving out childrens books, which, wow, the list there is remarkable. Seuss, Silverstein, Milne, "Wind in the Willows", "Harold & The Purple Crayon", Sendak, "Goodnight Moon", "Alexander & The Terrible, Horrible etc", Dahle, Carle, etc - what does it say about us that the things we love when we are so small are so worthy of life when we are big, yet the things we begin to love after each 8 or so almost invariably fall out of their position of affection?)