@Fidget "Oui, Baaahhhb."
@RNL It's always helpful when people share their similar experience :) I don't really understand WHY people suddenly decide they need to be friends with their exes, but apparently they do.
@lasso tabasco @planforamiracle You all rock. This is just what I needed to hear, thank you. I can't tell if it feels like the right thing to do, which...probably speaks for itself. Thank you to all!
@JanieS @RNL Thank you both! I was thinking about asking him if it was something specific - I am just afraid it's something to do with his dad/family, and even though I'm not involved anymore I would still want to be there for anyone who might need it. But either way, I really don't think we need to be in each others' lives.
Halp. Well, not really halp, but advice, please. Last weekend my ex boyfriend texted me out of the blue and asked if I wanted to "meet for coffee to catch up". We were together for two years, we broke up a year & a half ago, but the week after we broke up his dad was diagnosed with terminal cancer, so I was around for part of that. Eventually we saw each other less and less, and I texted him my new number last year but he didn't respond so I thought, well that's it. And it was fine.
And now this. I don't know what he wants to talk about - if anything - but I was completely fine having him out of my life. I don't want to be callous, though! What would you guys do?? I am also in a getting-to-be-serious relationship, and I just don't want to bring up the past or any unnecessary drama...
@newyorkette I am picturing having the whole Stranger album on now and actually crying with laughter.
I KNOOOOW THAT EEEEVERYBODY HAAAS A DREEEAAM
@leonstj I feel like Love Serenade would be the best Barry song for the intimate times... What Am I Gonna Do With You is my fav, and might sound like it would be a good bedroom song, but it's just too darn upbeat.
I have had really sensitive sex to Sigur Ros and it was actually almost too much.
The Ballad of Curtis Loew by Lynyrd Skynyrd really did it for me, one time? I don't know what this says about me.
Pretty much anything Green Day. I speak from experience.
@SmartCookie I am laughing so hard I can't breathe