On The Glittery Fountain In the Sky, Staying Closeted For Your Career, and Lesbian FOMO

LW1: I'm a straight woman who has absolutely no interest in dating or even being sexual with women and I am obsessed with breasts and ogle them all the time. And I've felt similar feelings of both "am I queer?" and "am I a misogynist for objectifying the most womanly looking women?" And I think the answer to the latter is no, as QC says, and I've also come to realize that even though I don't get crushes on women and identify as straight, I will just always be attracted to certain female bodies. I don't think fantasizing about or finding women's bodies attractive means you are suddenly a lesbian- unless you want it to. Gaining some experience with either gender will probably help you figure out who you really want to date/ have sexual experiences with.

Posted on October 16, 2013 at 11:25 am 0

On Friday Open Thread

This is gonna mess it up, but I just noticed there are 617 comments on this thread, aka the Boston area code. I'm there stuck inside :(

Posted on April 19, 2013 at 5:23 pm 2

On Jane Marie, What's Actually in Your Makeup Bag Right Now?

@area@twitter I would recommend tinted moisturizer or bb cream in literally every scenario, maybe followed with powder if you have very oily skin. Also for eyeshadow colors, you might try first sticking to what looks best with your eye color: I have blue eyes, for example, so I wear a lot of browns and golds. Just google your eye color + eyeshadow and you'll be set.

Posted on February 6, 2013 at 5:21 pm 2

On Hair and Morality

@cuminafterall Hiiiiiiiiiii

Posted on October 12, 2012 at 2:51 pm 0

On Hair and Morality

Also I appreciate that there's leniency in regards to people who are not the cheatER but are still technically involved in that. Yes, it's not a great idea to get involved with people who are involved with other people, but it happens and I think it should be ultimately up to them to deal with the consequences.

Posted on October 12, 2012 at 2:49 pm 1

On Hair and Morality

I love this man.

Posted on October 12, 2012 at 2:47 pm 1

On Beauty Q&A: The Most Beautiful Bright Lipstick in the Land

@Yahtzii Another pale redhead here. For an everyday reddish color, try Korres lip butter or glaze in Pomegranate. Both products are amazing, sort of cheap and come in a bunch of colors. For a nighttime look, a Sephora make up artist told me to try dark purple-y colors which I laughed at but it is really correct, no competition with hair.

Posted on July 16, 2012 at 6:01 pm 0

On Ask a Clumsy Person

Once a packet of those silica gel balls opened in my bag, and one got jammed into the headphone socket of my cell phone. So, another reason to keep them in a bag.

Posted on April 13, 2012 at 4:21 pm 1

On Jordan Roberts, What's Actually in Your Handbag Right Now?

Yes, I will marry he who carries electrical tape (for putting over my boobs at raves obv) and an emergency radio.

Posted on March 30, 2012 at 4:27 pm 3

On Beauty Q&A: Grays, OTKs, and Sleeping in Rollers

Thigh highs are really great as someone who lives in Boston (although it hasn't been THAT cold yet this winter). They are essential for going out when it's literally freezing outside. If you wear just tights between November and March, you will die if you have to walk in the cold for more than a block. I often go black mini, polka dotted tights, and black knit thigh highs. I wear them with black sneakers or flats which is apparently a NO-NO!

Posted on February 29, 2012 at 10:37 pm 0