FYI, LW4: My ex was your pretty average straight dude, and he was not really into PIV. He mostly did it because I liked it. He much preferred other ways of stimulation, like handjobs or just rubbing together. Soooo....that's just one man in many, but if it helps, there are at least some dudes who are less enthused about PIV. And we didn't meet via any kink venues either.
@emsiela the last time I fell in love, it happened over a few months but there was no question once I realized it that I loved him very deeply. No, it wasn't butterflies constantly but over the 2.5 years we were together, I was always thrilled to hear from him and just enjoyed him and our time together so thoroughly.
Every relationship is different, though. My sister has been with her husband for ten years and she admitted it wasn't super passionate with him, but he's a steady, kind, funny man who we all adore and she's very happy with her decision to marry him. So....each situation is just so individual and ultimately it's up to you. Sorry! That seems very unhelpful. Good luck!
Oh zut, I forgot about Thanksgiving! That means the entire internet* is pretty much going to be shut down for the next four days. How am I going to distract myself?
*by which I mean, the sites I usually visit which are apparently overwhelmingly American.
@nebula Being blindsided - YES. The worst part.
It sounds like things are going better for you now, which is nice to hear. Thanks for your comforting words!
@adorable-eggplant That actually means a lot. Thanks! *sob*
Adam Levine? Barfamundo.
But what about Tom Hiddleston? Too obvious?
@Sarah Librarian Ahhhhhh, a similar thing is happening to me, it just happened 3 weeks ago. Minus the manic episode, but basically some emotional problems manifested and what seemed like a wonderful relationship ended very abruptly because of them. He was really the love of my life, or so it felt. I'm so sad I just pretty much want to stop existing.
Gahhh, Susan Miller! I started reading her almost three years ago, when "Saturn is in your house making life very difficult". This was supposed to ease up in like, 8 months and not happen again for 40 more years or something, but then she was like, PSYCH! Now all the other planets are combining in a special never seen before way to make your life hell for the next four years, lol!
Anyway, she hasn't been wrong about my life being shit, so points to her I guess.
Never understood the appeal of the snooze button. Why would you want to relive the horror of being jerked out of sweet sweet sleep more than once a day? No! Just, no!
Also, I wake up as late as possible so where is the time for snoozing? If I don't get up immediately, I am late and if I am chronically late, I am fired. SLEEP IS PRECIOUS.
@j-i-a Set two back up alarms. It's the only way!