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On I'm Never Cooking Again (Not That I Ever Cooked Much to Begin With, So There's Been Very Little Change)
@hangnail Agreed. I just don't like the idea that cooking = domesticity = femininity. I know someone who refuses to learn to cook because "feminism!" but really all she's doing is relying on her male roommate to feed her instead of learning how to cook.
Not wanting to cook because you think you're bad at it, or have alternate sources of food is fine. Not wanting to cook because of an old gender binary is duuuumb, regardless of your gender. Everybody eats! Cooking is just a means to that end. If you have another means, then use it. Otherwise, just learn to put foods together!
Thank you, Haley, for telling me that Gilmore Girls is also on Canadian Netflix. Why did I come to work today? That seems like a fail on my part.
but what if it's true, and this whole time Tinder wasn't a really a "dating app" but a way to rescue people who've been buried alive?
This made me cry at my desk a little bit. Thank you. (For writing it, not for making me cry, because that would be awkward.)
oh my gosh this is perfect
@omitofo At first I was offended by that statement, until I remembered stuff like:
- My cousin poking her head out the open window of her tiny car to shout at her friend, hoping her voice would carry up one storey and through the window, instead of getting out and ringing the doorbell
- My aunt asking me if I liked pasta with potatoes in it (carbs are not a joke in Italy, they are srs business)
- Answering "yes" to "do you want lemon and sugar in your tea?" = half a lemon and two tablespoons of sugar, lest my aunt appear to be anything less than generous.
@adorable-eggplant I literally JUST started! I wanted to pick up Ms. Marvel but none of the booths I went to at Comic-Con had issue 1 in stock. I bought one issue of Astonishing X-Men by Joss Whedon (because those are two of my favourite things) a few in Matt Fraction's Hawkeye series, and two trades of his Iron Man series. ("Invincible Iron Man," which I am apparently unable to pronounce, so if anyone wants to write a series called "Invisible Iron Man" I'd appreciate it.)
@adorable-eggplant You can always do the wedding equivalent of what my friend did (she didn't tell Facebook about her pregnancy until after her son was born) and just surprise people with a wedding photo.
Only thing about that is that then people might not be sure who knows and who doesn't, so they might not be able to titter to each other about how excited they are for your wedding, for fear of spilling the beans. (I spent four months - maybe more - not talking to anyone about my friend's pregnancy, even though I was so excited!)
Oh also congratulations! (How wonderful?)
I changed my demeanor at work for a very important meeting, and actually spoke up and voiced my negative opinions, so that was pretty therapeutic!
Um, I bought some comic books and will start reading them soon - does that count as a change?
I'm not sure what other changes I really made, but I've made a few decisions that will likely lead to concrete changes in the coming weeks. (Should I get highlights, though? Yeah, I guess I should.)
@adorable-eggplant *gasp* we're not allowed to guess what the semi-secret is, are we?
I have a friend who managed to avoid mentioning a major life happening on Facebook for MONTHS. I knew it was happening because she told me irl, and she's not a social media addict anyway so it was pretty easy for her not to slip, but I was impressed that she kept it a secret for long.