"When love [or your own hair] turns its back on you it's nice to know there's a world out there that doesn't give a shit about your problems." -Jens Lekman, famous bald guy
@pedgehog Yeah but would you rather have 3 extra inches, or a hundred grand? When I think of it this way I have a hard time relating to Big Guy's hemming and hawing - take the money and run.
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@25319959@twitter A true heir to @pua_txt! Thankls for making my day, brother.
@Elitist and Dull "ask advice from guys who actually score" is the premise of PUA. You're thinking of "ask advice from guys who actually score and aren't piles of human garbage", and I don't think those guys would readily give (well, PUA's dont give they sell) advice to someone like a member of PUAhate.
Maybe everyone should ask for advice from guys who don't "score" but, like, hook up with girls the kinda like and like, get in relationships, maybe, see where it leads, and maybe find a person with whom to make a good team, and wow we're getting married omg! Everyone should live like me is what I'm saying.
@sardines I'm out too, because holy shit, lady. I'll leave you the last word on this.
@Duncan Kinney@facebook I'm partial to "paranoid Berkeley shiksa feminista", myself.
@sardines OK. From where I'm standing, your "not informed enough" sounds a lot like "not actually a rapist". What I'm perceiving is that in your eyes it's not possible for me to be a feminist while being somewhat mystified by the female body and female orgasms because I can't have either.
Y'know there's a learning curve being a good (competent, caring, exciting) sex partner to a woman. Every straight dude is somewhere on that curve - Nice Guys, rapists, Jim Behrle and me*. I'm missing the link between that fact and displaying "a disregard for females as active partners". I feel that paints all men as potential rapists which my sister-in-law does, for example, and I don't think she's a harpy, I just disagree.
We talk about sex and orgasms, sometimes making jokes; we also make jokes about our own orgasms, about the situational weirdness of being turned on or not turned on, about boners, about the clit. What we all agree on is that baity NYT sex trend pieces are terrible.
*My personal journey actually involved being told that I needed to be more in touch with what I want instead of second-guessing myself and obsessing about feedback.
@sardines I am having a hard time connecting the dots here between this piece and rape and sexual assault. I didn't really read it as "trying to address" anything, not even half-assedly, so I don't understand how you have a problem with it. Can you be specific? I'm sincerely interested.
@champignondeluxe Dude here with the same dynamics. YMMV, y'all.