this shit cray.
@I'm Right on Top of that, Rose Not one bit inappropriate - when the roosters are crowing and the cows are doing circles in the pasture, ducks fly together after all.
I'm glad I can come to the comments here instead of having to wade through the ones on the NY Magazine site.
This article is so fucking important.
@Statham your username is literally the best.
Oh lord this article came out at a weird time. A few years ago, the cops caught a guy taking pictures up my skirt on the subway. A non violent interaction, but when I had to testify against him in court, I found myself in the victim room. I like to keep tabs on him online if I can - to make sure he doesnt suddenly live down the street from my new apartment or anything. I happened to find his facebook for the first time last week and everything came back, strong as ever - the throwing up, the insomania - and in my case, the anger.
I'm so, so glad the author found herself supported by so many around her. I know personally the whole experience left me feeling so dehumanized - knowing that so many intimate details of your life are part of an open book for an apathetic court system - ah I don't think there's a proper word for that feeling, but I imagine if there is, it's in German.
@missupright last time I went to get my hair cut, my stylist noted that I had some weirdly uneven spots. I had to sheepishly admit they were knots I had to cut out.
@Kirs how did you broach this topic? it's very far off on my horizon, but starting to appear in my telescope (I used telescope here because I forgot the name of the seeing thing that pirates use and I wanted to keep the horizon motif going...arrr).
Fingers crossed he says yes!
@frigwiggin pineapple wedges! with hot sauce on them!
@vunder all of the teisto clublife podcasts. just not in a row.
Does anyone have any tips for removing knots from curly hair (or preventing them)? After a romp or four in bed, my hair looks like a parody of bedhead. I do the whole detangle, wide brush thing but my friend removed what was basically a hidden dreadlock the other day.