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Flirting, Unqueering, and Lesbian Porn vs. Lesbian Porn

I am a queer lady and I'm engaged to a very nice heterosexual man. We've been together for five years and he is fully aware of my queerdom and super happy and supportive in a non-oppressive-voyeuristic "I like girl-on-girl" kind of way. I don't think my relationship unqueers me, but do other people? Does the LGBTQ crew hate me for still trying to claim a spot in the rainbow?

No, your relationship does not void your queer membership card. As I mentioned in a previous column, sexual orientation is based on desire, not what you do about it. A heterosexual virgin is still straight, and a [...]