If you had to guess which one of the guys you slept with wrote sex reviews on prostitute Yelp, which one would you guess?
If you had to guess whether the person you've been hanging out with for a while carves his own sporks and then uses those sporks to the exclusion of all other utensils, what would you guess?
If you had to guess how many guys you will do who totally start picking their nose and eating it after the first time you have sex, how many would you say?
If you had to guess whether you're with someone who used to have those big earrings and then [...]
Eliot is a 31-year-old graduate student working in media studies, and we talked just as she was finishing up an article on lesbian pornographic comics and the nature of female fantasy.
Jia: Hey Eliot! I'm so intrigued by this article you’re writing.
Eliot: Hi! Thanks. Yeah, it’s certainly sort of weird to spend all of your time studying people who perform and write acts that you, for the majority of your life, have had zero interest in. But I think that in academia, we always end up focusing on things that compel us in ways that we don’t fully understand. Part of the reason I so frequently use the lens of [...]