Thursday, July 10, 2014


My Nom de Peen: The Surprising Effects of a Male Pseudonym

pen 15I’ve written poems off and on, mostly off, over the course of more than two decades, and I’ve published them in Ploughshares, The Antioch Review, and maybe ten other respectable literary magazines. I work at a corporation, not in academia, and I don’t pretend to know much about how these journals operate.

A couple of years ago, I wrote a bunch of poems about industry, the Midwest, and the exploitation of labor and natural resources. After a few rounds of submissions, I didn’t get a bite. Knowing my subject matter was not stereotypically feminine, I decided to submit under a male pseudonym.

It wouldn’t be the first time I used a pen name. When I got my first contract for a romance novel, I did a quick Google search of my given name before signing. As plain and ordinary as it is, I share it with a beloved vintage porn star. Not wanting to draft off of someone else’s success, I made up a new name on the spot, inspired by my love for a Vampire Weekend song. In an oblique and ineffectual attempt to promote my books, I blogged a lot as Bryn Donovan, and now it’s my default for online writing.

To choose an alias for poetry, I turned to a baby name book that included the most common stereotypes about each name. I chose a male name that many people associated with creativity and paired it with an ordinary surname.

In my next two submission rounds, I got three poems accepted. “Wow,” a friend joked. “That penis makes you very talented.”

Statistically, it meant nothing. These were different journals. I’m only one person, and everyone’s luck ebbs and flows. If the name did make a difference, it might have been because it made me sound younger and cooler.

A couple of writers I knew disapproved, believing I was selling women short as a whole. I understand the sentiment, but I am such a minor player in the tiny realm of poetry publishing that I can’t imagine it matters.

Using a male pseudonym changed how I communicated. My cover letters for poetry submissions had never been chatty, but now they became ever so subtly less warm, more guy-like. When an editor asked for a change, I simply pointed out that the poem was written in iambic heptameter, and the proposed edit would throw off the meter. The poem was published without changes.

The most powerful effect of my nom de peen, though, was that it changed how I viewed my own writing.

I should explain a little first. My mother, a nursery school teacher who got married at the age of nineteen, raised me to be a feminist. From the time I was little, she would lecture me: “Don’t you ever let anyone tell you that you can’t do anything.”

I’m a seasoned creative professional now, accustomed to putting forward her own ideas. Unlike lots of people I know, particularly women, I don’t suffer from so-called impostor syndrome or consciously doubt my own talent.

Basically, I am the last person in the world I would expect to internalize sexism. And yet.

When I first printed out my poems under the new name and read them over, I experienced them in a whole new way. The lines felt more important, more universal. They had Things to Say about America. Yes, I thought. This guy knows what he’s talking about.

How did this happen? What part of me had managed to hold onto the idea that my vagina made my writing more trivial? I imagine that living in a world where men are usually the leaders in government, the preachers in church, the authors on the class syllabus, the CEOs of the companies, the voiceovers of the movie previews and the heroes of the movies, and so on, had made me subconsciously equate maleness with gravitas.

I might stick to the guy name for all of my poems. Even a modest uptick in acceptances means a lot to me. And while I may write about more “feminine” subjects in the future, I suspect a male poet gets extra credit for sensitivity and empathy, while people take these qualities for granted in a woman.

But the pride my alias gives me about my own writing is the real reason I don’t want to let it go. And with that I'm left dealing with the fact that for so long I thought I was free from sexism, but all along it was dwelling on a deeper level than I could have imagined.


Bryn Donovan is a professional greeting card writer, a poet, and the author of two romance novels and three children’s books. She lives with her husband and two neurotic dogs in Kansas City.

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Fascinating -- and sad.


@myeviltwin my thought exactly.


mind blowing!!! @v

Crystal Kopp@facebook

Just because you see it as a tiny realm of poetry doesn't mean it doesn't matter. It matters hugely. Women writers have had to fight for years to be taken seriously, to be part of the canon of classic literature. I know you're just internalizing what is constantly shoved down our throats as women and as women writers but it's time to step up and claim your real identity. Your writing is important and has something to say because you as a person have something to say. Your lack of a penis doesn't change that. I want to leave you with a little bit of powerful in this week in history: On July 8th, 1848 Charlotte and Anne Bronte traveled to London to prove to their publisher that Currer Bell and Acton Bell were really two women. They did this in Victorian England. Maybe someday you will be able to do the same in the 21st century.

saul "the bear" berenson

@Crystal Kopp@facebook Your comment sounds really vindictive. I think you missed the point here.

I liked this piece a lot, and think it points out something tricky in a really simple and effective way. Thanks for sharing it, Bryn.


@saul "the bear" berenson Why do you think Crystal's comment sounds vindictive? I didn't get the sense that she didn't understand the article, but simply had a different point of view on course of action.

For the record, I loved the article....


I don't believe your male counterpart, your pseudo-peen, would think twice about doing whatever it takes to inch himself up the ladder of success.


I believe someone over at The Good Men Project wrote about having an androgynous pen name...and again having more success when it appeared the pen name was interpreted as male vs female (how the author knew this I'm not clear about). What is most confounding to these two accounts is that, to me, we don't encourage much reading and writing in boys...by we, I mean society of course, but we tell boys to be tough and brave and cast of writing and reading and thoughtfulness as girly. So why then do we, as a collective, appear to value male authors more? It is an interesting and frustrating dichotomy.

Feminist Killjoy

@Pammisback I think it has to do with gendered ideas about expertise, such that even when certain activities are dominated by women, we are fare more willing to accept a man as "the best" or a world-renowned expert in that activity. Several examples: Cooking duties in the home fall on women, but most famous chefs are men. Elementary school teachers are mostly women, but college professors are mostly men. Nurses are women, doctors are men. Yoga class is 99% female, but the famous yoga gurus are all men (who somehow maintain their status as morally/spiritually enlightened despite overwhelming evidence to the contrary). Little girls love to draw and paint while little boys play outside, but men dominate the art world. Clothing and shopping is considered very female in nature, yet many top fashion designers are men (same with famous hairstylists and makeup artists). It's kind of depressing.

Lily Rowan

@Pammisback As to how a name is interpreted, my real name is gender-neutral, and sometimes in correspondence I get Mr. or Ms. when the person writing has nothing to base their guess on.


In a world where male is viewed as the default you're basically buying yourself blind peer review (which I'm surprised poetry journals don't have, but whatever.) Is your pseudonym linked to your other work anywhere? What if someone likes your poetry and wants to know more about this Mr. "Tristan Smith?"


@sheistolerable Just to clarify, that name is made up based on the article . . .

Hypnotist Collector

I've heard several stories of freelancers who couldn't get arrested, switched to a male or neutral name, and suddenly were in business and even confidently able to raise their rates. It's beyond discouraging.


Excellent article. Very interesting to read. I really love to read such a nice article dieta per dimagrire. Thanks! keep rocking!


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