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Tuesday, April 15, 2014

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Leftover Woman

I am supine in a plush recliner. A woman is kneeling before me, pressing her thumbs into my feet. My friend Jon, a Chinese-American Tsinghua professor, is next to me in an identical chair. The TV in front of us is switched on a nature channel. The leopard pouncing on an unsuspecting gazelle makes sense in any language.

A man is rubbing Jon’s feet. “Is that your girlfriend?” the masseur asks him in Mandarin, nodding to me. “No,” Jon says, “she’s an old friend.”

“How old is she?” the masseur asks. Jon asks me and I answer 29 in English although I understand the Chinese. Jon translates and the masseur asks him if I’m married. Jon doesn’t need to consult me. “No,” he answers.

“Ahhhh,” the man says, “American women like to play for a long time, huh?” He laughs, and Jon laughs too, in uncomfortable solidarity. The woman rubbing my feet looks up at me and our eyes meet. We say nothing.

Someone in Beijing explained it to me like this: western men think Chinese women are spoiled. Little princesses. They want to be fawned over with teddy bears and expensive gifts. Better to cry in the back of a BMW than smile on the back of a bicycle. Chinese men think western women are spoiled. Little princesses. They say whatever they want and have opinions about everything. They drink alcohol and smoke cigarettes. They are easy, have probably slept with dozens of men before you, but still want respect. I know enough Chinese and western women to know this is both true and also the furthest things from the truth. I, for one, love both alcohol and teddy bears.

My roommates are Chinese cousins from Henan Province. To save money they share a bedroom and a bed. Han Jia is in her early twenties, prim and innocent. Her cousin Shenying is different: cultured, with a round face and short-cropped hair.

Shenying is a year older than me and has been in Beijing since coming to the city to attend a top art school. Her old paintings are stacked in our cramped entryway behind Han Jia’s many sparkling, high-heeled shoes. It’s unclear to me what exactly Shenying does for work or how often she does it. She spends a lot of time watching television; one show features a dreadlocked young Chinese man whose name is iPad. Her English is as terrible as my Chinese and sometimes, drunk on watery Tsing Tao beer, desperate to be understood, we shout to sober Han Jia in the kitchen. “Han Jia! Fanyi!” Translate!

Shenying has a boyfriend, a painter with shoulder length hair who doesn’t seem to like me. Often he says things about America that I can’t understand and Han Jia refuses to translate. Shenying also has a husband who lives in Shanghai and a young daughter who lives with Han Jia’s mom back in their hometown. Only once do I ask about it. “We came together for the baby,” Shenying says in halting English.

“And now?” I ask, and she shrugs. I take this to mean that they have fulfilled their filial obligation and are now free to do as they please, but neither of us has the language to talk further. There’s a name for children being raised by grandparents while their parents try to make it in a top-tier city: liushou ertong, left behind children. I’m told it doesn’t sound so cruel in Chinese. There’s a term for women, too, who aren’t married by age 27. They’re called sheng nu, Leftover Women. 

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People usually guess I’m 24 or 25. I still look young enough to be asked my age by near strangers; museum employees tell me about student discounts. But I’m not so young that I can tell the truth without changing people’s perception of me. Maybe my successes seem smaller given the amount of time I’ve had to accomplish them.

Until two or three years ago, I hated looking younger than my age, getting hassled buying a lottery ticket from a gas station, getting stopped at the airport because I didn’t have a guardian. I looked young and I felt young. I didn’t think I would mind being single on my 30th birthday. Until a few months before I hadn’t thought twice about it.

But then I suffered a freak-out somewhere between minor and major. I was six months into life in a foreign country, past wondering who I was without my friends and onto wondering whether or not I existed. I sobbed over Skype to my most recent ex back home, watching myself fall apart in a little window at the bottom of the screen. I told him I was worried I would never get married or have a baby. “I’m glad you feel like you can tell me this,” he said austerely. We had dated for just over three months.

Maybe I freaked out a little late because I spent half of my twenties dating the man I thought I would marry. When we broke up I was 28 and he was 35. Immediately he bought a vintage Corvette and tattooed his knuckles (“HIGH LIFE”). Within a year he was engaged to another woman, younger than me, and there’s nothing that makes you feel older than screaming, “She’s younger than me!” We had met as cute, creative baristas and somehow ended up early midlife crisis clichés.

I was surprised by my own embarrassment at being 30. Being alone—not just single, but away from my friends—made it worse. I booked a solo holiday to Jeju Island, Korea for the week following my birthday, planning to rent a bike and live like a Murakami character, talking to cats and preparing myself simple meals of rice and fish. For the day itself I’d buy a cake and have my handful of weird expat friends around to the apartment. Shenying’s boyfriend would come too, and a few of Han Jia’s coworkers.

When I left for China, I made a lot of jokes about going to find my Chinese husband (“he has to be a rapper,” I told everyone). But besides taxi drivers, I met exactly one Chinese man. He worked at the school with me, hated Japanese people, drank tea from a mug with a Garfield cartoon on it, was married, and was a huge help when I couldn’t decide which brand of cell phone to buy. I think we were the same age. His son was born weeks after I left.

The taxi drivers I chatted with for practice and just to hear their perspective on things. One driver, a 34-year-old, told me about his daughter. She was 10 and he hoped she’d study English. “Are you married?” he asked. No. “A boyfriend?” No. “But there are so many men,” he said.

“I can find men,” I said, “but not... good men. They are not good.” He laughed, maybe at my shitty Chinese or maybe because I was right.

There were men, of course. In Beijing I got to know American men, Australians, Moroccans, English (far surpassing all others in the not-good category), Irish, my dearest friend from India, and Anastas, the Macedonian intellectual basketball coach I would spend the night of my birthday with.

These men tended to date Chinese women they didn’t plan to stay with. “Oh, she knows it’s not serious,” they would say, even the ones who lived with their girlfriends, even after going home to meet her family during Spring Festival. I heard them complain about backward Chinese expectations for women in their late 20s, the pressures to settle down and get married. They always seemed surprised when I told them American women are often also made to feel adult, successful, useful only after they’re married. Our mothers are anxious for it—a man with good genes and old money, one you’ll love forever. “Maybe you should try dating older guys,” a 20-something American, an English language editor and part-time marijuana salesman, told me, “You could marry, like, a 50-year-old. That would be a win-win.”

There is no American term for leftover women. But there is a Facebook quiz that, after calculating the data from your friends’ accounts, tells you when you should get married in order to be on par with your peers. It said, at 31, I still have two more years. It’s ridiculous, but it gave me some relief. Next time a family member asks if I’m dating someone, I’ll know I have a couple of years left. A couple more years to find that perfect 50-year-old who’s ready to settle down. Because after all, American women do just like to play around for a long time.

 

Photo via kheelcenter/flickr.

Allison Reibel is a librarian-in-training in Seattle, WA whose favorite pastime is forcing strangers to listen to cute stories about her niece. Her first book, Fu or Die, will be released in 2014.

26 Comments / Post A Comment

Vicky

Really liked this, Allison!

DaJuice

"They always seemed surprised when I told them American women are often also made to feel adult, successful, useful only after they’re married."

My little brother's wife is way younger than me, they have a kid, and I feel like she looks down on me because I haven't "settled down" yet.

My mom needs my roommates'/friends' phone numbers every time I move so that she'll know who to contact if it seems like I've disappeared.

I just realized she probably wishes I was married so that someone will know if I get kidnapped.

PotatoPotato

@DaJuice: Ha, my mom was the same with phone numbers until I move in with my boyfriend. She wasn't thrilled about it at the time, but she also stopped panicking when I forgot to call her when I got home from visiting her 3 hours away.

mauritia

"Leftover women"? In a country with a major surplus of men?

I thought this was a lovely piece, but it does depress me how much of women's energy seems to be devoted to discussing the tired old topic of running out of time to find a man.

idrathernot

@mauritia It's definitely depressing. But I don't think that's the fault of this author, or any women who are only "discussing the tired old topic of running out of time to find a man" because of how society has ingrained this kind of pressure into them with terms like "leftover women."

Rookie (not the magazine) (not that there's anything wrong with that)

"one show features a dreadlocked young Chinese man whose name is iPad."

Please tell me more.

elsa may@twitter

Nothing makes me happier to be a "leftover" woman than scrolling through my Facebook feed to see what boring person just got married.

Thanks for this piece!

ragazza

I often felt in my 30s that if I got married to some random person and quickly divorced, my family would finally see me as an adult. I would have loved to get married earlier--if I had met the right guy. Why people don't get that, I will never understand.

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my name is Andrew Mark from Houston,
taxes.i never believed in love spells or magic
until i met this spell caster once when i went
to Africa in April this year on business
summit. She is really powerful and could help
cast spells to bring back one's gone,lost ,
misbehaving lover looking for some one to
love you. Bring back lost money and magic
money spell for a good job,I'm now happy
and living testimony cos the woman i had
wanted to marry left me 2 weeks before
our wedding and my life was upside down
cos our relationship has been on for 2years...i
really loved she, but his mother was against
us and she had no good paying job . So
when i met this spell caster, i told she what
happened and explained the situation of
things to she..at first i was undead, skeptical
and doubtful, but i just gave it a try. And in
7days when i returned to taxes, my wife
(now wife) called me she self to me
apologizing that everything had been stetted
with his mom and family and she got a new
job interview so we should get married..i
didn't believe it cos the spell caster only
asked for my name and my wife name
and all i wanted she to do... Well we are
happily married now and we are expecting
our little kid,and my wife also got the
new job and our lives became much better.
In case anyone needs the spell caster for
some help, his email address is:
agagulovespell@hotmail.com...... hope he helps
you out. Hurry now and contact him now
via email address:
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Adams Trace@facebook

What a beautiful and wonderful testimony some time things you don't believe can just happen.my name is Adams Trance i am from U.S.A am 25 years old i got married at the age of 24 i have only one child and i was living happily .After one year of my marriage my husband behavior became so strange and i don't really understand what was going on, he packed out of the house to another woman i love him so much that i never dream's of losing him, i try my possible best to make sure that my husband get back to me but all to no avail i cry and i cry seeking for help. i discussed it with my best friend and she promise to help me he told me of a man called Dr.ogala, he is a very great man and a real man that can be trusted and there is nothing concerning love issues he cannot do that is why they call him Dr.ogala. I contacted his email address.And i told him everything that happen all he told me that i should not worry that all my problems will be solved immediately. He told me what to do to get my husband back and i did, he said after One hour my husband will come back to me and start begging, it really happen i was very surprise and very, very happy our relationship was now very tight and we both live happily again. So my advice for you now is to contact this same email address:(Holyspellcast@gmail.com, if you are in any kind of situation concerning love issues and any other things that give you problems. He can use his HOLY spell to help you. his web site http://holyspellcast.webs.com and you can also call him +2348072371282 THANKS..

Adams Trace@facebook

What a beautiful and wonderful testimony some time things you don't believe can just happen.my name is Adams Trance i am from U.S.A am 25 years old i got married at the age of 24 i have only one child and i was living happily .After one year of my marriage my husband behavior became so strange and i don't really understand what was going on, he packed out of the house to another woman i love him so much that i never dream's of losing him, i try my possible best to make sure that my husband get back to me but all to no avail i cry and i cry seeking for help. i discussed it with my best friend and she promise to help me he told me of a man called Dr.ogala, he is a very great man and a real man that can be trusted and there is nothing concerning love issues he cannot do that is why they call him Dr.ogala. I contacted his email address.And i told him everything that happen all he told me that i should not worry that all my problems will be solved immediately. He told me what to do to get my husband back and i did, he said after One hour my husband will come back to me and start begging, it really happen i was very surprise and very, very happy our relationship was now very tight and we both live happily again. So my advice for you now is to contact this same email address:(Holyspellcast@gmail.com, if you are in any kind of situation concerning love issues and any other things that give you problems. He can use his HOLY spell to help you. his web site http://holyspellcast.webs.com and you can also call him +2348072371282 THANKS..

Adams Trace@facebook

What a beautiful and wonderful testimony some time things you don't believe can just happen.my name is Adams Trance i am from U.S.A am 25 years old i got married at the age of 24 i have only one child and i was living happily .After one year of my marriage my husband behavior became so strange and i don't really understand what was going on, he packed out of the house to another woman i love him so much that i never dream's of losing him, i try my possible best to make sure that my husband get back to me but all to no avail i cry and i cry seeking for help. i discussed it with my best friend and she promise to help me he told me of a man called Dr.ogala, he is a very great man and a real man that can be trusted and there is nothing concerning love issues he cannot do that is why they call him Dr.ogala. I contacted his email address.And i told him everything that happen all he told me that i should not worry that all my problems will be solved immediately. He told me what to do to get my husband back and i did, he said after One hour my husband will come back to me and start begging, it really happen i was very surprise and very, very happy our relationship was now very tight and we both live happily again. So my advice for you now is to contact this same email address:(Holyspellcast@gmail.com, if you are in any kind of situation concerning love issues and any other things that give you problems. He can use his HOLY spell to help you. his web site http://holyspellcast.webs.com and you can also call him +2348072371282 THANKS..

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Pretty amazing point you have there, I really do agree with everything. - Lindsay Rosenwald

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I want to thank God for using dr Inibokun as my source of salvation after 2 years of unemployment and my lover left me alone, i was left with a only broken heart until I met a Lady's testimony on a facebook page on how she was helped by the same Dr. Inibokun, so i decided to contact him and when I told him all my problems, he laughed and said this is not a problem, everything will be fine in three days, if i could only provide everything he will ask me to provide. So i provided everything and Exactly on the third day, my ex lover call me surprisingly and what surprised me most was that a company i applied for more than four months earlier called and said I should resume work as soon as possible.Am very grateful to Dr. Inibokun. He was a great help and relief. Dear friends if you wish to contact him, his email is (drinibokunspell@gmail.com).

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(1) If you want your ex back.
(2) if you need a divorce in your relationship
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(4) if you Would want men/women run after you.
(5) If you want a child.
(6) Do you want to be rich.
(7) You want to tie your husband and wife to be yours forever.
(8) If you need financial assistance.
(9) if you are in need of Herbal Care.

Contact him today at (drinibokunspell@gmail.com)
Cheers friends!!! :)

Mariam Mercy@facebook

I want to thank God for using dr Inibokun as my source of salvation after 2 years of unemployment and my lover left me alone, i was left with a only broken heart until I met a Lady's testimony on a facebook page on how she was helped by the same Dr. Inibokun, so i decided to contact him and when I told him all my problems, he laughed and said this is not a problem, everything will be fine in three days, if i could only provide everything he will ask me to provide. So i provided everything and Exactly on the third day, my ex lover call me surprisingly and what surprised me most was that a company i applied for more than four months earlier called and said I should resume work as soon as possible.Am very grateful to Dr. Inibokun. He was a great help and relief. Dear friends if you wish to contact him, his email is (drinibokunspell@gmail.com).

He also makes the spells on the following
(1) If you want your ex back.
(2) if you need a divorce in your relationship
(3) if you Want to be promoted in your office.
(4) if you Would want men/women run after you.
(5) If you want a child.
(6) Do you want to be rich.
(7) You want to tie your husband and wife to be yours forever.
(8) If you need financial assistance.
(9) if you are in need of Herbal Care.

Contact him today at (drinibokunspell@gmail.com)
Cheers friends!!! :)

Mariam Mercy@facebook

I want to thank God for using dr Inibokun as my source of salvation after 2 years of unemployment and my lover left me alone, i was left with a only broken heart until I met a Lady's testimony on a facebook page on how she was helped by the same Dr. Inibokun, so i decided to contact him and when I told him all my problems, he laughed and said this is not a problem, everything will be fine in three days, if i could only provide everything he will ask me to provide. So i provided everything and Exactly on the third day, my ex lover call me surprisingly and what surprised me most was that a company i applied for more than four months earlier called and said I should resume work as soon as possible.Am very grateful to Dr. Inibokun. He was a great help and relief. Dear friends if you wish to contact him, his email is (drinibokunspell@gmail.com).

He also makes the spells on the following
(1) If you want your ex back.
(2) if you need a divorce in your relationship
(3) if you Want to be promoted in your office.
(4) if you Would want men/women run after you.
(5) If you want a child.
(6) Do you want to be rich.
(7) You want to tie your husband and wife to be yours forever.
(8) If you need financial assistance.
(9) if you are in need of Herbal Care.

Contact him today at (drinibokunspell@gmail.com)
Cheers friends!!! :)

Mariam Mercy@facebook

I want to thank God for using dr Inibokun as my source of salvation after 2 years of unemployment and my lover left me alone, i was left with a only broken heart until I met a Lady's testimony on a facebook page on how she was helped by the same Dr. Inibokun, so i decided to contact him and when I told him all my problems, he laughed and said this is not a problem, everything will be fine in three days, if i could only provide everything he will ask me to provide. So i provided everything and Exactly on the third day, my ex lover call me surprisingly and what surprised me most was that a company i applied for more than four months earlier called and said I should resume work as soon as possible.Am very grateful to Dr. Inibokun. He was a great help and relief. Dear friends if you wish to contact him, his email is (drinibokunspell@gmail.com).

He also makes the spells on the following
(1) If you want your ex back.
(2) if you need a divorce in your relationship
(3) if you Want to be promoted in your office.
(4) if you Would want men/women run after you.
(5) If you want a child.
(6) Do you want to be rich.
(7) You want to tie your husband and wife to be yours forever.
(8) If you need financial assistance.
(9) if you are in need of Herbal Care.

Contact him today at (drinibokunspell@gmail.com)
Cheers friends!!! :)

Taylor Borg@facebook

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Taylor Borg@facebook

My name is Taylor Borg,All thanks goes to Dr.Trust for saving my marriage from toning apart.i feel so grateful and only have good words about a powerful spell caster named Dr.Trust who helped me bring back my wife. We had been apart for 4 months, at first I was thinking if I was doing the right thing by contacting a spell caster, but I so much love my wife and won't give her up for anything in this world. I decided to contact Dr.Trust through his mail address I found on several testifiers messages online,and I told him about my situation, he laughed and told me my wife will be back to me in the next 48 hours. I felt it wasn't going to happen at first until my wife called me and was so eager to have me back more than anything on earth.. Now we are together and she cant do without me,and both of us are happy. I feel so happy sharing this testimony because there was no negative act attached to his work. His work was smooth and fast. Thanks to Dr.Trust for bringing back happiness to my life. I swear with my life that Dr.Trust is a man to trust and take your problems to. You can contact him on his e-mail if you really truly want your love back. dr.(ULTIMATESPELLCAST@GMAIL.COM OT ULTIMATESPELLCAST@YAHOO.COM TEL: +2348156885231)

Taylor Borg@facebook

My name is Taylor Borg,All thanks goes to Dr.Trust for saving my marriage from toning apart.i feel so grateful and only have good words about a powerful spell caster named Dr.Trust who helped me bring back my wife. We had been apart for 4 months, at first I was thinking if I was doing the right thing by contacting a spell caster, but I so much love my wife and won't give her up for anything in this world. I decided to contact Dr.Trust through his mail address I found on several testifiers messages online,and I told him about my situation, he laughed and told me my wife will be back to me in the next 48 hours. I felt it wasn't going to happen at first until my wife called me and was so eager to have me back more than anything on earth.. Now we are together and she cant do without me,and both of us are happy. I feel so happy sharing this testimony because there was no negative act attached to his work. His work was smooth and fast. Thanks to Dr.Trust for bringing back happiness to my life. I swear with my life that Dr.Trust is a man to trust and take your problems to. You can contact him on his e-mail if you really truly want your love back. dr.(ULTIMATESPELLCAST@GMAIL.COM OT ULTIMATESPELLCAST@YAHOO.COM TEL: +2348156885231)

Tracceey

My Name is TRACY, From New York,USA. I wish to share my testimonies with the general public about what this man called Dr Obodo Agunechemba has just done for me , this man has just brought back my lost Ex husband with his great spell, I was married to this man called Steven we were together for a long time and we love each other but when I was unable to give him a child after 2 years,he left me and told me he can’t continue anymore then I was now looking for ways to get him back until a friend of mine told me about this man. My friend gave his email to me and asked me to contact him but I didn't want to cos I doubted at first but later reconsidered cos it's so rear for a man to be as powerful like she said. So I contacted her through this email (drobodo55@gmail.com) You won’t believe this when I contacted this man and told him my problems he cast the spell and my ex came back begging on his knees and asking me to forgive him. Not only that after a month I miss my monthly flow,when I went to my doctor,he confirm that I am pregnant so I told my self that I will testify to the whole wide world about the wonders of the powerful if I give birth successfully. I am so happy today cos I am a mother of a bouncing baby girl,thank you once again the great Dr Obodo for what you have done for me, if you are out there passing through any of this problems
listed below:
1) If you want your ex back.
(2) if you always have bad dreams.
(3) You want to be promoted in your office.
(4) You want women/men to run after you.
(5) If you want a child.
(6) You want to be rich.
(7) You want to tie your husband/wife to be yours forever.
(8) If you need financial assistance.
(9) Have you been scammed and you want to recover you lost money .
(10)Cure of HIV and AIDS
contact: drobodo55@gmail.com

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