"After years of essentially power-exfoliating my lady part, I found that coming any other way required a level of concentration on par with taking the SATs. It was exhausting."
For Cosmopolitan, Lauren Bans asks a professional, "Is my vibrator ruining my vagina?"; at Slate, Amanda Hess investigates the magazine's "most infamous sex tip." (The donut. No spoilers. Go read.) [Cosmo, Slate]
vibrators, masturbation, lauren bans
Like the author, I have a difficult time having an orgasm without my vibrator, but I don’t have a problem with it. It works for me. My bf and I still do all the other stuff, but it’s nice to have something that works so effectively when I need it to. Once when I told a guy how difficult it is for me to orgasm without my vibrator he was like, “oh, we’ll fix that” BUT I WASN’T ASKING HIM TO. The system is not broken, dude.
@fallopian princess Indeed, I'm in the same boat. It's NBD. Now, if someone used to be able to get off very easily, started using a vibe and then couldn't get off the way they used to, I could see that being annoying. But I never could get there until I got something heavy duty and have even tried to dial it back to less intense vibes, but just for variety's sake.
Yeah, I don't really have a problem with my vibrator addiction. Maybe it helps that my husband and I have figured out how to use the vibrator while we have sex (and he likes to watch me anyways). But if it ain't broke, don't fix it!
I dunno, this is more a problem I always had, that Mr. Hitachi solved.
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