Monday, March 2, 2015


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12-Year-Old Tamir Rice Blamed for His Own Death

Pleading innocence, immunity and ignorance, the city of Cleveland responded to a wrongful death lawsuit filed by Tamir Rice's family by saying the 12-year-old's death was his own fault.

In November, Cleveland Officer Timothy Loehmann fired the fatal shots at Tamir within two seconds of arriving outside a recreation center where the sixth-grader was playing with a pellet gun.

[...]The city also claims it is entitled to all "full and qualified" immunities under state and federal law.

After Michael Brown's death, we were all so hopeful: if only we had video footage, we could prove these deaths were unjust. Yet the lack of legal action first in Eric Garner's murder, and now in Tamir Rice's, proves that, as hard as we may shout that #blacklivesmatter, black lives are disposable. I've run out of words.


Purity Ring, "bodyache"

I, for one, welcome our slowly dancing hypnotically entrancing animatronic lady overlords.


Weekend Roundup / Open Thread

Hey you guys: I know we've been having great fun arguing about the dress and all, but just a quick reminder that yesterday was the third anniversary of Trayvon Martin's death and tomorrow's the last day of Black History Month, and maybe we should take a second to meditate on those things today, you know? Then, by all means, go back to the fun. That dress is blue and black and I don't care who tells you otherwise.

We started off this week with our favorite Oscar looks, and cheerfully marched on: we learned SO MUCH about boners and the evil eye, set some men straight, made some blondies, got kicked out of our punk band, recast Sunset Boulevard, brought back Ask a Lady!!!, put placenta on our faces, stopped by laughter therapy, came to terms with being single, made peace, said some fancy phrases, asked Wendy, read some poetry, asked a scientist, and had some #deepseated anxiety.

THIS WEEK IN LADIES: Jaya Saxena BEIN' NAUGHTY, Meaghan O'Connell on being the "slacker parent", Thanaa El-Naggar on being a practicing Muslim in short-shorts, Beejoli Shah on some low-budget TV show no one has ever heard of, and Kiva Reardon on David Cronenberg.

My dad just texted me about the dress. I'm going back to bed. See you Monday!



La_Dolce_Vita_(1960_film)_coverartIt's a Wonderful What if I Have a Kid Someday And They Turn Out to Be A Serial Killer

Raiders of the Lost How Do We Know We Aren't All Going to Hell When We Die

The Bridges of Madison I am Worried About Watching My Parents Grow Old and Feeling Helpless

The Silence of the Wait Whatever Happened to Mad Cow Disease

La Dolce I Have No Idea How to Start Saving for My Retirement Fund

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Well, I swear I blinked and next thing I know, the milestone birthday was upon me. Over the past few months I’ve drastically reduced my rent by moving into a less trendy neighborhood and getting a roommate for the first time in years. I’ve also bumped up my 401(k) contributions, and figured it’s time to consider, what would be involved in one day buying my own place.

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Ask a Scientist: Rochelle Diamond, Chair of the National Organization of Gay and Lesbian Scientists and Technical Professionals

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Expressing individuality as a scientist can seem like a form of treason, which is why it’s so rare to see. It’s why the Internet collectively went berserk when a NASA employee sported a mohawk during the Mars Rover landing, or why most of my colleagues will follow up a description of their weekend activities with a dejected, “but…I really should have been working instead.” It’s why there are so few movies about well-adjusted scientists who do non-scientific things in their spare time. In the weird, insular worlds of science and academia, sometimes it feels like the greatest sin one can commit is having a personal life.

This kind of thinking keeps so many queer/LGBTQIA scientists from being, if not out, then out and proud. Along with the fact that academia is traditionally a realm that has been, and continues to be, occupied by older straight white men, trying to express a queer identity at work can feel more awkward or distracting than empowering. It’s also worth noting that this ambivalence is a best-case scenario that excludes factors like homophobia, which can quickly turn an ambiguously queer-friendly workplace into a dangerous one.

Much of this is specific to my own experience as a queer female scientist, but what is more broadly applicable is that, despite a few recent attempts to characterize the state of queer workers in STEM, there’s so much that remains unclear. How many queer scientists are there? Where are they working? What are the problems that they’re facing, and what can be done to fix them? To put it more bluntly: it’s clear that there’s a lot of patriarchy-smashing that needs to happen. What’s less clear is who is going to do it and how.

Rochelle “Shelley” Diamond is a research biologist at Caltech who understands these issues better than nearly anyone else. Along with her wife, who is also a scientist, she founded and currently runs the National Organization of Gay and Lesbian Scientists and Technical Professionals (NOGLSTP). Shelley and I recently chatted for close to an hour about her work, the state of queer acceptance in STEM, and what still needs to be done about diversity in science. READ MORE


Lupita Nyong'o's Oscar Dress Stolen, Jazmine Hughes Wanted for Further Questioning

Um this is probably unrelated but Jazmine has been lounging in a $150,000 pearl-encrusted Calvin Klein gown all week. Is Jazmine a professional couture thief masquerading as a blogger/Twitter bully?!? Oh my god, this explains so much. Wait she's right behind me ok everyone be cool.


Is There A Way To Drain A Lake You Are Afraid You Will One Day Drown In?

to prepare for all possible possibilities I must admit
I feel extra saggy
my cousin’s husband gets married for a green card
but neither of them care about America at all
well I do & I care about Korea too


TGIF, am I right?!?! | February 26, 2015


Art Problems? Ask Wendy!



Details has burst the proverbial bubble and told us exactly how terrible binge-watching TV is for us: the practice wreaks havoc on our spine, quads, gut, brain, lungs, and heart, and can result in everything from spine curvature to diminished lung capacity.

....But our fingers are totally fine, right? "Continue watching" Scandal, please. | February 26, 2015

Talking to Millennial Homeowners Who Just Bought Their First Home

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Today I’m talking to my sister and my brother-in-law, who are 30 and 29 years old respectively and just bought a home in Silver Spring, Maryland.

So. Why did the two of you decide to become homeowners?

Well, we had been “dream looking at houses” for a few months. We had been thinking we would maybe start by getting a nicer apartment for a few years and then get a house. Then we started to look at prices and realized that we could get a house for less than a two-bedroom, or even a one-bedroom, apartment in the same area.

This is interesting because the D.C. metro area is kind of known for its high housing rates! Are you making the distinction between a house and a “good” apartment?

Or will your mortgage be about equivalent to what you are paying now in your “okay” apartment?

The mortgage will actually be less than the rent on our current mediocre one-bedroom apartment. However, we are buying a townhouse that has HOA fees each month, so the total monthly payment will be more than our current situation. But it will definitely be less than even a crappy two-bedroom apartment.

Do you think a lot of young professionals don't realize this? Or do people just not think of homebuying as an option?

Our townhouse is at the end of the metro line in Maryland, so it’s not in a cool young professional neighborhood. A one-bedroom condo near our current place in DC would be close to twice as much as our townhouse. Also, a lot of young people probably aren't ready to pay the down payment required for a house purchase.



Fancy Lady Phrases I Want To Be Able To Seriously Say Before I Die


"My home... well, one of my homes..."

"Draw up the papers!"

"Well, my accountant says..."

"Sorry, I was in a committee meeting..." READ MORE